Where did you meet your first love / significant other?

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Where did you meet your first love / Significant Other
At School 40%  40%  [ 28 ]
At Work / Volunteering 3%  3%  [ 2 ]
A Random Encounter 4%  4%  [ 3 ]
Grew Up Together / Lived Nearby 6%  6%  [ 4 ]
Online Game / Other Interest 7%  7%  [ 5 ]
A Dating Site 9%  9%  [ 6 ]
None of the Above 31%  31%  [ 22 ]
Total votes : 70

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29 May 2011, 2:25 am

Just curious... First love is for those who do not yet have a boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife... more info on the poll options:

At School - You met going to the same school
At Work / Volunteering - You met at work or volunteering somewhere
A Random Encounter - You met while you were at a store or something, just random
Grew Up Together / Lived Nearby - Like you were childhood friends, or neighbors
Online Game / Other Interest - You met through a game or through some other type of interest
A Dating Site - You met through a dating site
None of the Above - Explain in a reply


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29 May 2011, 3:15 am

At a dance class.



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29 May 2011, 4:01 am

Social networking site


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29 May 2011, 5:57 am

At work. I usually meet them at work or on vacation.

Oh, first love. At a party.



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29 May 2011, 6:48 am

at my church...

the same applies to my 2nd love and my 4th love (which was my first actual gf)



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29 May 2011, 7:26 am

My first boyfriend was met at college. It didn't last because I found I didn't fancy him.

I met my current boyfriend on the bus.


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29 May 2011, 7:55 am

Met my "first love" in drama class in high school. He wanted us to save ourselves for marriage. He turned out to be gay. Heartbreak of my teen life! That was ages ago.



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29 May 2011, 1:17 pm

Comedy Central's forum 8 years ago when I wasn't even looking or trying. If they didn't take their forum down around time it ended; I might would of found another girl


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29 May 2011, 1:28 pm

I met my first love online - via ICQ - he was a random person who started chatting to me, it went from there.


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30 May 2011, 6:23 pm

I needed multiple choice.

There was a guy who lived around the corner from me who also worked at the same maccas as me. we weren't on the same shifts but we would check each other out. I met him as well at a few state music things but never talked just thought he was hot. Then we went to ballroom dancing (he was at the all boys school that was brother to our all girls school) we were paired up based on height. We still did n't really talk or anything. Then we caught the bus home and ended up sitting on the same chair and started talking. we went and hung out down at the local shopping centre until around 11pm and we were together for 3yrs all through high school.

awww.


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30 May 2011, 8:24 pm

OhNowIGetIt wrote:
Met my "first love" in drama class in high school. He wanted us to save ourselves for marriage. He turned out to be gay. Heartbreak of my teen life! That was ages ago.


I had pretty much the exact same experience with my first 'steady' boyfriend in high school! In hindsight, the signs were so clear, you could have seem them from space, lol, but I can have a great capacity for seeing what I want to see sometimes. Oh, well. We had fun together and he was a nice guy who never pressured young, innocent teenage blueroses into doing anything she wasn't ready to do. Cute, too. Looking back now, it all worked out for the best.



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30 May 2011, 8:44 pm

At a Doctor Who convention called 35-up.
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31 May 2011, 1:13 am

Childhood friend. Not with him anymore. He thought I was rude and didn't express myself. Truth is I loved him just couldn't tell him how much because I usually don't express myself but the feelings are there. We got along because of our similar interests and similar views of many other things that significant to both of us. But he just said that I was being distant even after he expressed his love after having known each other for 11 years. Before we got into the relationship I valued him as a friend but during our relationship I could not think of anyone else. After the breakup I was devastated. He was too!

But we managed to remain friends though and I still think he is the love of my life.

I've dated a few more people since then all of em said I was just cold. I wish I could do a better job of warming up to people.



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31 May 2011, 4:00 am

pree10shun wrote:
Childhood friend. Not with him anymore. He thought I was rude and didn't express myself. Truth is I loved him just couldn't tell him how much because I usually don't express myself but the feelings are there. We got along because of our similar interests and similar views of many other things that significant to both of us. But he just said that I was being distant even after he expressed his love after having known each other for 11 years. Before we got into the relationship I valued him as a friend but during our relationship I could not think of anyone else. After the breakup I was devastated. He was too!

But we managed to remain friends though and I still think he is the love of my life.


Aww.. can you guys try again?



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31 May 2011, 5:49 pm

Lene well he is quite career oriented and moved away after school. And we have not seen each other since... We update each other occasionally on each other's life and he thinks long distance is a big pain .. I am not really ready for a relationship now either once school starts again in fall I won't really have time for anything else..