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12 Jun 2011, 9:43 pm

Maybe if you haven't notice but I may have posted some 2 forums that I wanna meet some straight tomboys/androgynous girls, you thought I was weird. I'm not. I'm a good guy.

Now I wanna have a relationship. And not just tomboy/andro girls. Valley girls( like from Texas, Louisiana, Alabama, etc.), nerdy girls, and nice,cute,sociable,understandable, girls.

But then again, you girls are gonna think that I'm a really bad person. And I don't wanna be a (internet) troll for that.

This is just to point you out that I never,ever,EVER, had a girlfriend in my 15 years of life. And is embarrassing & pathetic :oops: .



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12 Jun 2011, 9:52 pm

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12 Jun 2011, 10:13 pm

Gee elle, man.



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12 Jun 2011, 10:28 pm

First of all, 15 years old and not having ever dated anyone? SCANDALOUS. As for meeting people, it just happens. Every friendship I've ever had started when I was relaxed and not expecting anything to happen. I understand the frustration and the impatience (I'm going through that right now) but saying "Me want, me want!" isn't going to get a relationship. If you focus more on what you want, that's not a relationship. A relationship is two people. I've concluded that I don't want a relationship, but that could be me throwing in the towel. Sometimes my own logic kills me.



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12 Jun 2011, 10:34 pm

Mindslave wrote:
First of all, 15 years old and not having ever dated anyone? SCANDALOUS. As for meeting people, it just happens. Every friendship I've ever had started when I was relaxed and not expecting anything to happen. I understand the frustration and the impatience (I'm going through that right now) but saying "Me want, me want!" isn't going to get a relationship. If you focus more on what you want, that's not a relationship. A relationship is two people. I've concluded that I don't want a relationship, but that could be me throwing in the towel. Sometimes my own logic kills me.
For some reason you're right.



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13 Jun 2011, 10:06 pm

Come on. Isn't there any girl out there?



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13 Jun 2011, 11:15 pm

Seriously?



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14 Jun 2011, 10:12 am

ConfusedDude wrote:
Come on. Isn't there any girl out there?


Heh.



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14 Jun 2011, 10:32 am

Lol, didn't you hear? There are no real girls on the internet. :roll:



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14 Jun 2011, 2:57 pm

You don't meet people by asking to meet people.


+there are no girls on the internet.



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17 Jun 2011, 6:25 am

Erisad wrote:
Lol, didn't you hear? There are no real girls on the internet. :roll:

Haha very funny!



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17 Jun 2011, 6:29 am

ConfusedDude wrote:
Come on. Isn't there any girl out there?

Hi im Mandi and ive never had a relationship. Im 14-15 yrs old and ill give u some advise of trying to get a girl. Firstly u need to make them b ur friend (like an actual friend, not a girlfriend) and act normal. As time goes on she will become a better friend and u will soon be going out with her!



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17 Jun 2011, 12:43 pm

ConfusedDude wrote:
Come on. Isn't there any girl out there?


Just because people tend to meet online these days doesn't mean that the random spontaneity has changed too. The people I've met online I wasn't trying to meet. Being proactive means to talk to someone directly, not to talk to anyone indirectly in order to talk to them directly. You can't create the situation because you are just a human. If you need to be told how to create the circumstances, then you aren't a very good con artist.



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18 Jun 2011, 8:14 am

ConfusedDude wrote:
Maybe if you haven't notice but I may have posted some 2 forums that I wanna meet some straight tomboys/androgynous girls, you thought I was weird. I'm not. I'm a good guy.

Now I wanna have a relationship. And not just tomboy/andro girls. Valley girls( like from Texas, Louisiana, Alabama, etc.), nerdy girls, and nice,cute,sociable,understandable, girls.

But then again, you girls are gonna think that I'm a really bad person. And I don't wanna be a (internet) troll for that.

This is just to point you out that I never,ever,EVER, had a girlfriend in my 15 years of life. And is embarrassing & pathetic :oops: .


That's such a short while, you're barely in high school.. there's no reason to rush having one, it's not the goal of your teenage years.

Wanna trade? I'm 21.


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18 Jun 2011, 6:55 pm

The internet is a secret we men keep from the wiminfolk.

If there were girls on it, don't you think that would ruin the whole secret?



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18 Jun 2011, 7:34 pm

15? You're still a baby for god sakes. If you reach 25 without one, then you can complain.


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