I am really lonely.

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I don't mean the blues. but I mean, I have no friends, no boyfriend and everyday is a struggle. I can't stand being alone. I want a boyfriend sooo much, I want someone to love and care for. Every one that I went to school with are getting married and having kids and I want to be part of it.

Do you have a cat? I'd suggest getting a cat. Not to exceed 4.

Forget about caring about a boyfriend or marriage for now. The whole friendship thing is tough and sometimes there is so much pressure to just merely play keeping up with whatever others are doing that it can actually make you miserable. Several years from now you may start to notice the wives are pissed off, the husbands are cheating, the wives end up cheating to get revenge, they divorce.

When that happens, will you still want to be married at that time?

When you aren't looking or wanting it sooo much, a good man will enter your life. You just think to yourself about how right now you just want cats. Go do good things for yourself and your life. Forget about the boyfriend. Pet the cats. If you cry, let the cat lick your face. If you type on the keyboard, let your cat bite your fingers. Oneday, poof there he is.

there is a love and dating section in here.

So am I. Nearly 29, and no girlfriend. Ever. Nuff said.

I would suggest trying to meet guys on here. I think lots of guys here are looking for someone; I certainly am

Don't feel so bad,there are others like you.
I've only got like 2 friends I ever see in RL,the rest are on the internet.I'm 27 and I've only had three relationships my entire life.That sounds good at first until you consider one of them was online (never met),and the other two were very short lived where the girl was extremely possessive/obsessive or just plain nuts.I've only kissed/made out with a single girlfriend,and that was back when I was 25.Never had sex at all.
Yep...I know the feeling of needing to hold someone you care for is very strong.Feel the loneliness quite often.But thank God for now I've got a few friends and family members around me.For now I hug them extra tight to fulfill my love needs,and I feel it brings us closer.

*Awkward aspie hug*