When I kiss guys, i don't really feel anything???

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I suppose I wouldnt be hugely attracted to them, but because of me being an Aspie or a "weirdo" to people, I'm always paired up with a creepy guy on a nite out. So I would make out with them anyway, coz I'm not really in a position to reject them, but I never feel anything when I make out? So should i feel something or do I have to be really into them to feel excited or whatever when we kiss?

I can only assume it's because you're not attracted to them. Have you ever made out with a non-'creepy' person?

It sounds perfectly normal the way you describe it.

The joy of making out is all about who you're doing it with, not kissing per se

^ That be true.

Why do you kiss them if you don't want to? Don't feel pressurised into making out with people. Your lips belong to you... noone else!

Only kiss someone you are actually attracted to, then you will more than likely feel something.

I'd wait until you have someone you're actually attracted to before you gauge your interest in kissing.

Of course you are in a position to reject them, you should never feel pressured because all your friend are paired up with other people leaving you with someone you do not like.
Only kiss guys you like, that's the whole fun of it. Butterflies in stomach, ridiculous flirting, dancing, that's the fun part of kissing.

If you're not attracted to them you will feel nothing. Why shouldn't you reject them if you're not attracted to them? Never EVER feel you owe people to hook up with them. Bad things can come of it.

Giving them play might also get you a reputation for you preferring sleaze and someone who might be desirable could easily be turned off thinking your the village bicycle. Even though your not it would seem that way because the company you associate with.

You shouldn't kiss someone, if you don't like it. It could give wrong impressions.

I kiss for lust reasons, but it woul be better if I feel love. But I don't because I dare not. I don't kiss when I don't know whether she wants. I just do not kiss.

Have you tried to make out with a girl?

No, I only kiss prostitutes and the like. It is for sure that they kiss when that is listed in their profile.

I am too shy to kiss other women. I never kno whether that will work.

Yes, this. And, it's possible that people are setting you up with guys you'd describe as "creepy" because you've given them the impression that you're passive and will go along with it, not because they think you're a "weirdo" because you have Asperger's.

I wasn't asking you, you silly .

I've always thought of trying it, to see if im bi or gay, but I don't know anyway who is gay.

Yes, it would be better to determine what's your sexuality before trying to get a boyfriend (in case if that was one of your goal) or even a just a making-out partner.

If you made out with plenty of guys before and none of them ever excited you, not even a tiny little bit, then your self-claimed straight sexuality would be questionable. It's so unlikely that none of the guys that you chose to kiss in your life was not even remotely attractive to you.