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ttqs84
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20 Sep 2011, 8:48 pm

...felt the need to escape to your own fantasy world where you dated/married a guy who's kind-hearted, smart, down-to-earth, humble, sweet, nurturing, gorgeous, sensual, understanding, faithful, and loves you for being yourself?
But then you realize that men of this real world in general turn out to be so evil and hateful that you believe that you'll be single because of them? I go through that myself. Any of you girls feel the same?

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20 Sep 2011, 9:42 pm

Count me for all of those things, except for gorgeous. Yes ladies, I AM that good.

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20 Sep 2011, 10:55 pm

ttqs84 wrote:

...felt the need to escape to your own fantasy world where you dated/married a guy who's kind-hearted, smart, down-to-earth, humble, sweet, nurturing, gorgeous, sensual, understanding, faithful, and loves you for being yourself?

(misandry statement removed due to irrelevance)

I go through that myself. Any of you girls feel the same?

Yes, sometimes. I enjoy being single, but I do not enjoy not having sex. :wink:

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20 Sep 2011, 10:55 pm

Sometimes for fun I imagine marrying guys who I am on friendly terms with in real life. Of course, I never even get to the first date with them in reality because I always get Friend Zoned.

Also, I have always had a lot of male imaginary friends throughout my life, but for some reason I have never been comfortable with daydreaming about dating or marrying them. But being a slash/yaoi fangirl, I have no problem imagining them getting together with each other. :wink:

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20 Sep 2011, 11:00 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

ttqs84 wrote:

...felt the need to escape to your own fantasy world where you dated/married a guy who's kind-hearted, smart, down-to-earth, humble, sweet, nurturing, gorgeous, sensual, understanding, faithful, and loves you for being yourself?

(misandry statement removed due to irrelevance)

I go through that myself. Any of you girls feel the same?

Yes, sometimes. I enjoy being single, but I do not enjoy not having sex. :wink:

sounds like me. no point in complaining though. -_-

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20 Sep 2011, 11:01 pm

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girls get friend zoned?! I thought that was just guys. :roll:

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20 Sep 2011, 11:04 pm

Girls definitely get friend-zoned.

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20 Sep 2011, 11:05 pm

Sextaesada wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

Yes, sometimes. I enjoy being single, but I do not enjoy not having sex. :wink:

sounds like me. no point in complaining though. -_-

I don't complain because I *could* get sex but choose not to without some sort of relationship. Too many strings.

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20 Sep 2011, 11:05 pm

I find there are good men and bad men. We women are sometimes not good at reading men's minds and intentions, as even aspie women operate differently to men. So it can take many years of trial and error to figure out which ones are good ones and not get taken in by ones that only want us for one thing.

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20 Sep 2011, 11:37 pm

I just avoid dating completely, too much drama. Whether I find "the man of my dreams" or not does not matter.

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20 Sep 2011, 11:51 pm

ttqs84 wrote:

But then you realize that men of this real world in general turn out to be so evil and hateful that you believe that you'll be single because of them? I go through that myself. Any of you girls feel the same?

I realize the point of this thread is to ask whether others fantasize. But I have to call you on your generalization that men are evil and hateful. When guys on this board over-generalize women, it's wrong. And it's wrong to do this for men. One just can't paint an entire gender with such a broad brush.

Yes there are bad men in this world. Terrible, evil men. But there are good men too.

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21 Sep 2011, 12:17 am

To an extent. I dream of having a fantasy guy. I dont find men to be evil and horrible. Some are, some arent just like everyone else. I kinda know how the male mind works by now. I just think since Im such a unique person, its likely that I'll never find the one. Some who gets me. I cant even find friends who get me most of the time, how am I suppose to find a Mr. Right?

I almost found a guy who met like 90% of my criteria and it ended up going horribly due to many ackward situations.

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21 Sep 2011, 12:52 am

Troy_Guther wrote:

Count me for all of those things, except for gorgeous. Yes ladies, I AM that good.

1) the thread's title clearly says it's for "Aspie Girls/Women", so it shouldn't apply to you considering you're a dude.
if you only wanna get laid simply by picking up on girls with your conceited attitude & pointless arrogance, there's a link for that:

Eligible Odd-Bods - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

2) not only you say you're not gorgeous, but judging on your message you're certainly not humble or down-to-earth. i guess there really is some truth in real world guys after all.

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21 Sep 2011, 1:03 am

ttqs84 wrote:

Troy_Guther wrote:

Count me for all of those things, except for gorgeous. Yes ladies, I AM that good.

Ouch, I'm hurt. The jokes just don't work around here, it seems. Way to judge me over a single comment.

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21 Sep 2011, 2:05 am

ttqs84, you were already asked privately not to make sexist remarks on the forum. generalising about an entire gender is not acceptable here.

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