Obres wrote:
ValentineWiggin wrote:
4. not wanting children (I'll be having them regardless)
Um... yeah, I'm gonna have to say purposely getting pregnant without consulting me would be a deal breaker, as I expect it would be for most guys.
Having children isn't synonymous with "getting pregnant"- (adoption will be my likely route, as sperm banks seem quite expensive, and there are so many children who need homes), nor would someone I'd been in a long-term relationship with be totally-ignorant of my wanting to be a parent, if not with him, then alone. No "consulting" is required, as it would be known from the beginning. That's a FIRST DATE/general compatibility thing which would be settled
years beforehand.
Perhaps you misunderstood me.
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