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19 Sep 2011, 7:53 pm

I will be 22 in this thursday and you know i am dissapointed because in appearence i am very 'undistinguished'.

Even when i try and put a lot off effort into looking smart when i go out most people will just think "theres a young man in a suit" and will think nothing more.

I mean you can call having aspergers "a distinguishing quality" if you want too but its not exactley a 'positive' distinguishing feature is it?

How can i look more distinguished? i guess over time a lot of people get more distinguished looking as they get older so maybe its a matter of being patient and letting nature take its course?

Recently i ahve grown a middle parting which of course could help make me look more distinguished. i have pale skin, brown- light brown hair and greeney- brown hazel eyes. How exciting :D



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19 Sep 2011, 8:02 pm

Jamesy wrote:
I will be 22 in this thursday and you know i am dissapointed because in appearence i am very 'undistinguished'.

Even when i try and put a lot off effort into looking smart when i go out most people will just think "theres a young man in a suit" and will think nothing more.

I mean you can call having aspergers "a distinguishing quality" if you want too but its not exactley a 'positive' distinguishing feature is it?

How can i look more distinguished? i guess over time a lot of people get more distinguished looking as they get older so maybe its a matter of being patient and letting nature take its course?

Recently i ahve grown a middle parting which of course could help make me look more distinguished. i have pale skin, brown- light brown hair and greeney- brown hazel eyes. How exciting :D


Unless you have a chiselled face, it takes age. The last guy I dated was *very* distinguished. In looks, achievements and personality. Chiselled face and in his 30's.

You just have to wait. In the mean time.. enjoy being young!

If you post a pic people may be able to give you ideas too.



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19 Sep 2011, 8:10 pm

I have got very nice hair though. can that help?

people say i look like keanu reeves as well.



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19 Sep 2011, 9:03 pm

Keanu Reeves is sexy!! ! At least to me, he is. If you've been told you look like him, take it for the compliment it is and do your best to build on that!


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19 Sep 2011, 9:07 pm

ladybug iam like keanu reeves without the chiseld features.



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19 Sep 2011, 10:10 pm

A nice watch usually helps but be careful because for a young man such as yourself there's a fine line between looking distinguished and looking like a "pricky little punk" for example Anakin Skywalker, Youngish Leonardo DiCaprio. Both eventually rose to a level of distinction though.