Jamesy wrote:
I will be 22 in this thursday and you know i am dissapointed because in appearence i am very 'undistinguished'.
Even when i try and put a lot off effort into looking smart when i go out most people will just think "theres a young man in a suit" and will think nothing more.
I mean you can call having aspergers "a distinguishing quality" if you want too but its not exactley a 'positive' distinguishing feature is it?
How can i look more distinguished? i guess over time a lot of people get more distinguished looking as they get older so maybe its a matter of being patient and letting nature take its course?
Recently i ahve grown a middle parting which of course could help make me look more distinguished. i have pale skin, brown- light brown hair and greeney- brown hazel eyes. How exciting

Unless you have a chiselled face, it takes age. The last guy I dated was *very* distinguished. In looks, achievements and personality. Chiselled face and in his 30's.
You just have to wait. In the mean time.. enjoy being young!
If you post a pic people may be able to give you ideas too.