John 35 Alabama wrote:
I also keep seeing this, where the OP will do this, and then never post again? Is that common?
From my time on here and the threads I usually click on, yes It does seem to be common. About ~65% of the time. I do find it annoying, as it's usually the OP's replies that I like to read.
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Back on topic:
Tim_Tex wrote:
I have had many experiences like the one the OP is describing.
Me too. However, OP seems to be generalising the entire population, which is unfair as I'm sure there are "overlogical" girls who make great companions and "common sensible" girls who dont.
I had an "overlogical" girlfriend and we didn't work out, she was gorgeous but I struggled getting conversation out of her. After half a year I ended it, we didn't 'click'. She was devastated to my surprise, under the surface she clearly cared a lot, but she never really opened up and showed it. On reflection I guess I can relate, and maybe she was more like me than I knew at the time.
But thats where my long term "common sensible" girlfriend comes in (who is now my wife). She has never been like me, and has always been open and free flowing. She accepts me at face value and doesn't tax on me at all. She doesn't question what I say, she provides enough happiness for the both of us, and she's more or less up for most things. Only mildly logical, and has lots of "sense". She compliments me, the ying to my yang.
So my experience does mirror what OP said, although I'm not necessarily saying he's right. Correlation does not imply causation.