Whether it's a social meeting or a business meeting, the first impression is what counts. Making a good first impression is important because you only have one chance to succeed. The first few seconds that someone takes a quick glance at you, are the ones that you will be remembered by. That snapshot can make all the difference.
Dress To Impress - there's no need to go out and buy yourself the latest Armani suit or Roberto Cavalli dress to impress (especially if you're a guy!) No seriously, it's not the price tag that is important, its how your clothing fits your body and character. Dress appropriately for the occasion, not overdoing it but also not looking sloppy (i.e. shirt half hanging out of trousers). What you wear reflects your personality and the way you do things including your work.
Smile - There's nothing like a smile to create that good first impression. A smile can make you happy and feel comfortable, and it can also be contagious (well most of the times). Greet the other person with a smile and let them know that you are ready to listen to them and that you have the answers to their problems. Smiling can be seen as a sign of confidence, but keep it real.
Be a Good Listener - This is the most easiest thing to do, but some of us just can't keep quite. I have seen this mistake no end of times, where all you have to do is 'zip it' and let the other person speak. Actually I am guilty of this so many times, but guess what; people don't care about you, at least not at this stage. They want to be heard, so let them speak and just be a good listener, giving short comments like "I understand" or "I agree".
Let them be The Center of Attraction - Probably the most important factor when creating a good first impression is to let the other person now that they are the important one. You are out to impress them, because they are important. Never talk about yourself unless you are asked too.
07 Aug 2016, 12:58 pm
