What did she mean when she said this?

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this girl said behind my back the other day

"For me, if a man has confidence, and a strong personality, then he is very attractive.
Men like Hugh Jackman, and Johny Depp are sexy, because they personalities are strong, or they have just a 'something' about them, their confidence, perhaps, and man like .... Daniel Smith who look like they have a stick up their ***, that's not sexy."


In a bit more depth what does she mean?

Well when using the word "look", probably means stiff moving or not very fluid. Now if they say "act" like they mean the guy could be a jerk, butthead or dry sense of humor no one gets.

I'm sure being in their 40's has something to do with it

Yes, they have a certain "something" about them: their looks. Personality is part of it, but a lot of ladies would lose their adoration for those two actors if they suddenly got ugly.

Well girls should like me becasue besides..... i am young, have a good physical condtion and plenty off talent.

Do u agree?

She doesn't mean anything she said. What she means is "I find sexy guys to be sexy."

I agree. If she had named a couple of guys whom she found sexy who didn't have conventional good looks, that would have been different.

Oh please, they are talking about they're looks right there. They are throwing in confidence and strong personality to not sound like shallow women.

Daniel Smith is an ugly guy so I see why they are not attracted to him. What they mean by the stick up their arse is walking very tight, because if you actually had a stick up your arse, you could do nothing but be very tensed up, what they are trying to say is they got to walk like without a care in the world.

For people who have AS/Autism do walk around like planks, I'm not really sure why that is though could someone here tell me why that is?

I don't think a girl should like you for any reason. That is to say, a girl does not have an obligation to like you because they are girl and girls are said to like a trait you think you have. That is like becoming upset because you got a girl a doll and she doesn't like dolls.

People are individuals and could find someone attractive or unattractive for a variety of reasons.

If you walk around with that attitude, you'll get comments like that, I personally find arrogance and being shallow to be extremely unattractive. A girl should love you because you share a connection and mutual respect for each other and because you make her feel secure and beautiful.

I'm not gorgeous or nothin, but the girls I dated always mentined how they found my confidence an amazing trait. Confidence is pretty much all I got to work with. N girls say I'm so good looking just cause of my confidence, though I doubt I am. Though I'm confident I don't need to be attractive from my experience.
so yeah it's exactly what she was saying.
Confidence and how a guy carries himself is sexy.
If a guy doesn't carry himself well(stick up his ass) he is not sexy.
simple.