I'm pissed at everyone right now

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MR20
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25 Sep 2011, 10:40 am

I'm pissed at girls/women for not accepting me. I'm bitter and pissed at other men who can treat people like s**t (me) and still get dates because they're cute, fit, interesting, and my favorite, "mysterious". Of course I'm none of those things; I'm ugly, not fit, (no fat though) I'm really boring to be around and I annoy people after spending a certain amount of time with them.

Most of all I'm pissed at myself for being so f*****g inadequate. I'm weak-minded, lacking confidence and mental toughness. What decent looking girl would want a man that doesn't stand up for himself or wouldn't stand up for her if she was being disrespected.

What girl would want a man that has nothing more than a fifth grade education? I haven't read a book (literature) in my life. What would we talk about? How would we relate? There would be a lot of silence, because I'm too stupid to talk about anything interesting.

I'm also poor, jobless, never dated, friendless, slow, and a hermit. I'm 25 and I still live with my parents. I do nothing but watch anime, porn, and play video games all day.

Would be friends with someone like this let alone date? Society views people like me as scum, low-lives, and bums that are good for nothing.

You people view me this way too, but would never say it because you're too polite.

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25 Sep 2011, 10:46 am

MR20 wrote:

I'm pissed at girls/women for not accepting me. I'm bitter and pissed at other men who can treat people like sh** (me) and still get dates because they're cute, fit, interesting, and my favorite, "mysterious". Of course I'm none of those things; I'm ugly, not fit, (no fat though) I'm really boring to be around and I annoy people after spending a certain amount of time with them.

Most of all I'm pissed at myself for being so f***ing inadequate. I'm weak-minded, lacking confidence and mental toughness. What decent looking girl would want a man that doesn't stand up for himself or wouldn't stand up for her if she was being disrespected.

What girl would want a man that has nothing more than a fifth grade education? I haven't read a book (literature) in my life. What would we talk about? How would we relate? There would be a lot of silence, because I'm too stupid to talk about anything interesting.

I'm also poor, jobless, never dated, friendless, slow, and a hermit. I'm 25 and I still live with my parents. I do nothing but watch anime, porn, and play video games all day.

Would be friends with someone like this let alone date? Society views people like me as scum, low-lives, and bums that are good for nothing.

You people view me this way too, but would never say it because you're too polite.

The only reason people view you this way is because this is what you tell yourself all the time. Why don't you tell yourself something else, or do something else? What are you afraid of?

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25 Sep 2011, 10:52 am

You're young. You could change. You just don't want to.

But if all you say is true and you don't intend to change a thing why do you care? Just give up on women, join some anime, porn and video game sites and live your life as you see fit. Do what you want.

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25 Sep 2011, 11:07 am

MountZion wrote:

MR20 wrote:

The only reason people view you this way is because this is what you tell yourself all the time. Why don't you tell yourself something else, or do something else? What are you afraid of?

I can only react to what I see, and I'm afraid of people being mean to me and laughing at me if I go out and try to meet people in public. (males and females) I'm also afraid that people would take advantage of me because of how naive and clueless I am.

BTW, in another thread you called me troll and said you'd never respond to another post that I made, so why do you care?

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25 Sep 2011, 11:12 am

MR20 wrote:

I do nothing but watch anime, porn, and play video games all day.

Well, do something different then! Go out for a walk, take up a hobby (like photography), watch movies, visit places nearby. Do you live in the UK? You probably aren't stuck for things to go and look at.

I'm very fat and not very attractive and I've never been laid or had a girlfriend either and I'm only two years younger than you. Think on.

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25 Sep 2011, 11:19 am

MR20 wrote:

MountZion wrote:

MR20 wrote:

The only reason people view you this way is because this is what you tell yourself all the time. Why don't you tell yourself something else, or do something else? What are you afraid of?

I can't help it, I dislike seeing people in distress, especially when such distress is self-imposed to an extent. I didn't call you a troll, I raised my suspicions that you were possibly trolling because you simply rejected every piece of advice that I gave you to help you. It is quite insulting when that happens.

Again, you have to be fearless, you have to cultivate that fearlessness within you. I know what it feels like to be afraid of people embarrassing you and taking advantage of you because there are things you don't know. But what you have to remember is that you can actually change yourself for the better. You don't have to be naive and clueless you know. You can actually educate yourself. You seem to type very well, and I'm sure you can read well. Libraries are free, aren't they?

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25 Sep 2011, 11:25 am

I gived up on dating, and being a growedup.

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25 Sep 2011, 11:39 am

I'd say cry me a river, but you have shed enough tears to fill an Olympic sized pool. You haven't taken the smallest action towards making your situation better and you don't even want to change, so until you do that then you can keep whining but don't expect that to lead to anything productive.

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25 Sep 2011, 11:53 am

Tell us something new.

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25 Sep 2011, 11:56 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Tell us something new.

What's the booze like in Lebanon? Do you indulge?

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25 Sep 2011, 12:17 pm

Well, if you are a hermit, there is little chance of knowing anybody. You need to go out and get a life.

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25 Sep 2011, 12:25 pm

MR20 wrote:

Solution 1: Get your G.E.D.

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25 Sep 2011, 12:41 pm

Tequila wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Tell us something new.

What's the booze like in Lebanon? Do you indulge?

There's a lot of booze in the Christian areas (in pubs, restos, clubs..).

and so in many leftist southern Shiite areas, but only very recently, Hezbollah is forcibly ceasing the alcohol vendors operated by Muslim Shi'aa after its coup d'état. I have no sympathy toward them tho (the Shi'aa alcohol merchants and the Shi'aa leftists) , they deserve such harassments from Hezbollah, after all....they should think before voting.

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25 Sep 2011, 1:06 pm

PM me. I've been where you are now.

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25 Sep 2011, 1:16 pm

This should be moved to the haven.

MR20 wrote:

You people view me this way too, but would never say it because you're too polite.

Since when are we known to put niceties above truth?

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25 Sep 2011, 1:30 pm

Is there really no job you can handle, not even a part-time one?

A fifth grade education is not an impediment necessarily. I have lots of uncles and rarely did they graduate HS. They're in the building trades.

Not being academically-inclined doens't make someone stupid.

If you find something useful to do with your time, you will feel more useful about yourself. Then you can build on that.

Oh btw, I worked with a group of people who mostly graduated in English from uni, at an IT company, and fully half of them hadn't read a book since they graduated. Why someone would get a lit degree if they are so uninterested in reading is beyond me.

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