POF.com email to Dating?

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Need help. Been emailing a girl on pof.com. We are getting along well. She def sounds interested in more. But once I've got her hooked, how do I reel her in. How do go about meeting her in person?
Should I be like, so I think we should hang out? Or should I be like, I think its time to check out our chemistry in person? Or like, lets see how we clash in person?

Any of those sound good or to forward?
We been emailing since last Monday. Her emails are getting smaller and smaller. But I'm out of town until Thursday. I'm afraid of setting a date up for next weekend n screwing up things between now n then.

This is the problem with online dating. It's very tedious, with a ridiculously large number of hoops to jump through just to get the benefits of dating. Plus, it oftentimes feels like race against time, where you're compelled to make something happen (a date, a kiss, etc.) as quickly as possible before she loses interest. So given the rat race nature of it, there's simply no opportunity to enjoy the process of dating or even the conversations with your date candidate, because of having to worry about her losing interest at any moment with no warning.

So I prefer meeting women offline, through social groups, dance classes, and singles' events. You don't have the same tediousness factor that you do with online dating. And if you two are really into each other, sometimes you'll end up making out right on the first meeting, which takes off the pressure dramatically. Unfortunately, I have no idea how the NT standard of "meeting women through friends" works, so that's out of the question for me, especially considering that the few times I tried that, none of the women liked me.