Aspies and kissing

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Does it turn you on? Turn you off? Do you have a threshold for what you can tolerate? Ia it pleasurable but overstimulating? Disgusting?


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...and for the uninitiated, does the idea of saliva, touch, sounds, etc put you off, or not?

Personally I like it, but I heard lots of aspies fear of touch and stuff like that so they're missing out.

I am not well experienced in this regard, but kissing is one of the most pleasurable sensory experiences of my life. The sound of other people kissing usually bothers me though, alt though not always,

I like kissing a woman's body almost anywhere. Kissing someone on the lips can be disappointing if the other person is bad at it, and has her lips too limp--as happened with this aspie woman I very informally kind of "dated" a while back. It seriously seemed like she hadn't even kissed someone on the cheek before, but then she got better at it.

The idea of bodily fluids doesn't bother me--in fact if anything I tend to fetishize them. So I would need to know, consciously, that the other person is infected with something to think kissing her is gross.

Kissing is something I do not do unless I am extremely comfortable with someone. It's very intimate for me... everything having to do with my head is, really.

With the right person and the correct circumstances, it's a major turn-on.

I like kissing. But only with the right person. If it's not, it just feels like pashing a sloppy bag of meat.

With someone you love and have a connection with, well, it's so much more.

Iew. Kissing creeps me out. Never been able too. Only air kisses like a fake socialite.

I've never been kissed, but I imagine i would like it

It kind of gives me the creeps. It's wet and I don't like the feel of it. I have done it before, a long kiss. I did it for the experience. I also feel the need to wipe the spot there I have been kissed. I do not like french kissing and it grosses me out and gives me the creeps.

love to kiss my husband.

when i first kissed someone i thought it was youck. I still describe it as sucking face but i like it if im into the person im kissing. guess that doesnt really help but personaly i think kissing is gross unless you like the person you are touching

I never liked the idea of kissing or saw the point in it till I listened to that Miranda Cosgrove song, "Kissin U" a bunch of times while heavily crushing on her & I started fantasizing a lot about kissin her due to bad OCD. Now that I have a girlfriend; I have NO interest at all in kissin Miranda & I love the idea of kissing my girl; I think it's because of attraction & my OCD; I find the idea of kissing anyone else disgusting.
Here's song~ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhT_6Yz-Nbc&ob=av2e

I think the emotional overload would knock me unconscious if I snogged somebody, at least the first time. Holding hands with a female friend, just so we could do some ballroom dancing together, was extremely embarrassing and overly strong in the sensation/emotion department. I didn't want to do it, because it crossed so many ingrained boundaries, and it was a few weeks before I got used to it.

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This is kind of funny. It reminded me of the first time I kissed a girl, when I was 20. It was in a bar, lights were flashing, music was playing, and I was drunk. I was dancing with this girl, and at one point during the dance, we started making out. I don't know how I managed to do it right, because I felt a surge of lightning rush through my body, my knees were so weak that I had to tense up my leg muscles to steady myself, and my whole post-puberty life flashed before me. The kiss ended about 30 seconds later. We kept dancing and made out a few more times. Then she went to find her friends, leaving me standing shellshocked in the middle of a crowded dance floor.