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DiabloDave363
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06 Oct 2011, 11:23 am

i can be myself around her. i can be completely myself. its just...insane. like really. i can say wat i want, do wat i want. i dont have to act "normal". its just amazing. today is our 1 year. yea yea i dont hear wedding bells im not tht kinda guy but this is definitelysomething i want to continue for as long as i can...



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06 Oct 2011, 11:30 am

Good job. I'm glad you're able to completely be yourself around her, instead of just being the parts of yourself that you like. Make yourself certain that you're not subconsciously stifling any of yourself and hiding it from yourself like I did in my cult-like relationship.

I hope I didn't scare you--sometimes, I wonder if I talk about my bad relationship experience too much.



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06 Oct 2011, 11:37 am

Congrats!

I felt exactly the same way the last time I got to hang out with an Aspie girl - none of the usual "I need to try and act NT" anxiety.

In my case there were no romantic possibilities, but it was still an awesome feeling that I've never experienced before...



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06 Oct 2011, 11:38 am

Congrats dude, this definitely does from what it sounds like sound like the perfect relationship and it seems like she's just right for you. :D


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06 Oct 2011, 12:07 pm

Grisha wrote:
Congrats!

I felt exactly the same way the last time I got to hang out with an Aspie girl - none of the usual "I need to try and act NT" anxiety.

In my case there were no romantic possibilities, but it was still an awesome feeling that I've never experienced before...


its funny cuz she is an NT haha shes just weird like me



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06 Oct 2011, 12:09 pm

DiabloDave363 wrote:
Grisha wrote:
Congrats!

I felt exactly the same way the last time I got to hang out with an Aspie girl - none of the usual "I need to try and act NT" anxiety.

In my case there were no romantic possibilities, but it was still an awesome feeling that I've never experienced before...


its funny cuz she is an NT haha shes just weird like me


Weird works too... :)



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06 Oct 2011, 3:53 pm

The perfect relationship exists! Who would have thought?

Congratulations on being one of the lucky few to be blessed with such fortune!


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06 Oct 2011, 7:08 pm

I feel the same way about my Aspie girl :heart: I'm really glad me & her aren't the only 1s in happy relationships here; I know we aren't but it feels kind of like we are sometimes. I'm really happy for you guys :D


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06 Oct 2011, 8:33 pm

That's awesome. :)


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06 Oct 2011, 9:15 pm

I feel the same way in my relationship at the moment.

I have met someone who i can be myself around without having to pretend. I have certain things which usually i really downplay in a relationship this usually leaves me feeling so low. However with my current partner, he is the first person, i haven't hid any of my quirks from. It is a great liberating feeling.

I am not looking at making a future as such with this person (eg plan out a wedding or plan for kids and stuff) just enjoy every day we are together. :)