girlfriend complains about breast size -.-

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can someone tell me how to get her to shut the f**k up about it? its like, yea shes a 34-a but WhO CARES! yea bigger breasts turn me on faster but that it. it doesnt matter. shes a tiny girl too. its like, GOD DAMMIT GIVE IT A REST haha

any ladies have any words of wisdom for wat i should tell her to keep her spirits up?

well, not telling her that bigger breasts turn you on faster is a good start.

yea obviously. like it doesnt even matter. i just want the poor thing to stop getting down on herself -.-

yes, if you have said that already you have an uphill battle ahead of you. i've heard that a person needs to hear at least 10 good things (or something like that) for every 1 bad thing before they will be able to replace the negative with a positive in their own head. and yes, hearing that you get turned on faster big boobs is a bad thing in her mind. she wants to be the sexiest person you have ever known.

knowing that you like bigger ones better would make her feel kind of second-best. a word of advice for future is to never ever let a girlfriend know that any of her physical attributes are less than perfect in your eyes. not caring about her boob size is different from loving the way her boobs look, and she will keenly feel the difference.

some damage control is possible, but i can't guarantee the results... you could point out celebrity females with small chests that you find attractive, and talk about how your girlfriend's smaller chest suits her. every so often you might want to point out an outfit that works really well with her smaller chest - sometimes she might wear something that looks extremely flattering. other things you can remind her of is that flat-chested women often look thinner (which some people really like), and fashion models often have little breasts. also her breasts are less likely to droop as she gets older and she will look younger than her peers as she ages. and if you have sex wth her, you will want to pay a lot of attention to her breasts so that she knows you appreciate them.

i used to be flat-chested when i was younger (32AA) so i know the insecurity that comes from that.

like i already said, i havent told her. its just a quick turn on. breast size means nothing. but thank u for the advice

Tell her you are tired of hearing her complain about them. Tell her to just stuff her bra and get bigger bras to stuff or buy bras that have stuff in the cups already to make them look bigger.


Also if she ever gets pregnant and has a baby, maybe her boobs will get bigger and stay big. If she breast feeds, they will stay bigger and if she is lucky, maybe they will stay bigger. No I wouldn't encourage you to knock her up for the sake of her boobs if you two aren't ready to be parents.

this is terrible advice

I would. Bewbs are serious business.

I have to agree with OSB on this one.. It's quite insensitive.

The best you could do is re-assure her in a nice way that you find her breasts hot. If you don't... then maybe you should find someone you're fully attracted to?

Get her to wear an oversized bra filled with bags of sugar for a couple of days. You won't hear a complaint ever again.
(Source: an ex gf who had boobs as big as my head. Srsly)

Why?

its all wrong

'im tired of hearing you complain about them' isnt a nice way to put it.
stuffing her bra wont actually make her boobs bigger and will therefore not resolve her issues.
and telling her 'dont worry, maybe when i knock you up theyll grow' will just reaffirm in her mind the idea that bigger is better

I have dated guys who wanted small and I am big, so I had the opposite problem, feeling like an overinflated cow next to lithe, slim girls.

I would just assure the girl that you love her just the way she is, and that her breasts are great.

For one, she's saying about it probably due to feeling really bad about her boobs. Telling her to shut up about it is very lightly to have her calling the op some form of jerk and/or causing them to have the worst argument of their relationship.

DiabloDave363, personally I'd suggest that if you and your gf are at a stage of having sex in your relationship, pay a lot of attention to her boobs during foreplay. Also, as others have mentioned, if she looks good in an outfit tell her and keep on telling her (but not more than twice on the same day with the same outfit).

zen_mistress, I have this same problem!

mv, I am not actually convinced that the majority of men prefer big breasts, it is just that the ones who do talk about breasts the most, and the ones that prefer smaller breasts tend to keep quiet about it.