interested in an online project
For my project I will need 1 NT participant and 1 AS participant (me). It'll be a joint effort to find a system of inter-nuerological communication that can navigate easily for both aspies and NTs.... This would mean I would help you to understand to think aspie, but you will help me to understand to think NT... So we can put in into writing a system of inter-nuero communication (kinda like an international language, but I think it might can do wonders to bridge the gap between NT earth and AS earth).
It's best if theyr in the triangle area of NC, so I can actually meet you in person because to operate in NT world I need to learn body cues, hang gestures, etc etc. You may be male or female, though I would prefer a female because I could practice more with a female, I'm not really trying to learn how to hit on dudes because I'm straight (no disrespect to gay/bi people). Also if you are a female, don't take my words to mean I'm scheming to get down your pants or anything lol, I can assure you I'm a better man than that. Though if we both wanted to then I wouldn't see that being a problem either lol. But I'm not expecting anything like that. I do wanna learn how to effectively navigate the social aspects in NT society.
Yeah, you teach me how to communicate and respond and act like a NT and I'll show you how to communicate aspies, on neuro-sociological patterns and what not.
I also think it would be something interesting to show at the next major Autism conference. It would be a great show of nuero-diversity and equality.
But if any NT members of WP in my local area are interested in helping guide my project please lemme know. I'd be glad to work with you:)
To become more like NT, you need to understand them first. Understanding requires a logical head and most NTs will not be able to help you there. If you ask an NT with good social skills, he will not be able to tell you anything much use to you because all his skills are in the subconious. If you were to tell me, an aspie, what makes NTs good at socializing and give some useful tips, I can do it.
I have written a little thing on the subject of NTs. It will make you aware of the fact that NTs are playing a brutal social climbing game, which us aspies are ill equip to handling, unless we have some weapons designed especially for an aspie.
http://www.wrongplanet.net/asperger.htm ... ic&t=17942
We should not try any intellectual approach until, we have practiced mirroring. Mirroring we can do without any real concentration. The think about trying to be more NT is not to try to think too much( Don’t think it, Feel it). I trying to mirror at all given opportunity, mirror people as they walk on the sidewalk, mirror them in the shops, and mirror them when they are drinking their tee. I don’t give a f**k.
Also I will find out if exercises for the right side of the brain will also help.
