Girls: how have you misters done so?

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How did your husbands or boyfriends get to know you/meet you? Did they randomly approach you somewhere in a public place?

Did a mutual friend introduce you?

All of my exes were friends first.

I posted a funny ad on craigslist. He emailed me with a compliment about my appearance, some fun things to do in a respectful way and with a nice picture of himself smiling. We talked by email that day, he made a reservation while we were emailing for a very nice restaurant the next day. Then he asked me to go. It was Valentine's Day. We met that night. His sweet request told me he was only hoping for a kiss at the end of the night. He made me feel so good, I kissed him after we introdued ourselves while we waited at the bar. I actually stood up someone I had been seeing as friends for about a year. BTW...he is autistic. More so than I. Oh how I fell for him. I'm still having trouble trying to forget him. As you can see in my past posts.

The internet is a great place to meet someone and you don't have to worry about walking away. All you need to do is move on to the next person.

I met him at a Rocky Horror Picture Show and then we became friends for a while. It became more as time went on.

The guys Ive dated has been pretty much met online. Majority of the guys that have been interested has been online, a few in person but I never dated them.

if an aspie whos lost about social networking, making friends, and meeting people in general when not even pertaining to dating. The internet is pretty much the way to go. Tho I do realize that guys still can have it hard online cause girls are more likely to be suspicious and think your a creep/weirdo.

If your an aspie whos not lost about social networking, has a reasonable amount of friends, and makes a decent impression on people in different places. Well then think about your activities, job, school, friends. You can meet people everywhere. You can meet people thru friends of friends. Relationships can form everywhere.

They usually approch me/run into them randomly on teh street and we meet etc and exchaneg emails or something, I am usually the 1st to ask them out and they accept.
I hate it when i can sense that a guy likes me but will never ask me out so i ask them out usually im right.
But this only goes with NT men, I can never figure out Aspie men, and what their intentions are.
I ended up as FWB with an Aspie man, simply because when he asked if i wanted to come over and play Xbox with him i believed that was his only intentions... he gave me no other signals... and we ended up elsewhere to my surprise...
But hes a really close friend of mine now.

I met most of my partners online / through corresponding in one way or another, the only guy I met in a typical way was one night when I was insanely drunk at a metal club. I just latched on to him because he had a band tee on that I liked, lucky for me he was a nice guy.

My husband I met online, I placed an ad somewhere random (can't remember where) he responded, we corresponded for a few months when we realised we both had feelings for each other. He came to visit me and that was it from then on he came to see me every weekend despite living 300 miles away. He proposed after 6 months, I moved in with him a few months later, we got married the following year and our daughter was born the year after that. We will have been together 8 years in January.

First boyfriend I met at TAFE. We were in the same class and we kinda sat around the same bunch of people during lunch and class breaks. He got my phone number one day by getting everyone's phone number to put in his phone, and then he rang me for a "get together" at a bar in which I thought he was inviting everyone along. Turned out he only rang me, and that was the story of our first "date". Then he hounded me for weeks on end for a second one until I just gave in.

Second boyfriend I met here after I replied to his intro thread and he PM'ed me in response.

Third boyfriend I also met here after he took interest in my username. We dated briefly 12 months later and incurred the apocalyse that the mayans predicted.

Knew them before & work.

We were talking a lot. Alotalotalot. When I realized he was oblivious to my wiles, I hit him on the head with the Obvious Stick. He is now chained to my radiator.

My mother was the one who introduced me to him.

He was a volunteer in the library where she worked as a librarian and one day I stopped by to see her after work.

We clicked (my future husband and I, not my mother and I... We don't understand each other at all), and we became friends almost instantly. We were friends for a couple of days before we became a couple. A few weeks after that we started living together.

Friends first, met in a club in college having both gone to the same high school (at different times)

We met through a best friend and then I saw him at a medieval festival, watching the fighting and sat down next to him. We both enjoyed medieval fantasy art and and he was a big halloween fanatic which was cool too. Later, he started waving and saying hi whenever he saw me. Then he asked me to have dinner with him. Scatter brain that I am, I mixed up the dates and had to convince him I didn't stand him up.

1st - we were in marching band together. Dated two months, fell apart because it just wasn't working.

2nd - we were friends in college. I found him alluring. Fell apart a little over a month later because he slept with his ex. We were friends with benefits on and off for the next two years.

3rd - Okcupid introduced us. We dated 4 months before his mother told him to break up with me or else she'll take his bipolar medication away.

Current bf - I was a maid of honor in my bff's wedding. She was talking to him at a party and he brought up about how he's single and would like a girlfriend and stuff. She showed him my Facebook page and told him to message me. We went out on a date about a month later and we've been dating ever since. Granted it was only 5 months ago but it's a new record for me. Every other relationship I've had crashed and burned before this point. Goo me!