Reasons why you are a GOOD catch

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I thought I had already replied to this thread.

I'm spontaneous, creative, intelligent, kind, romantic, a polyglot (I know Norwegian, English, a little bit of French and learning Russian).
I can also hold my liquor quite well, though I cannot hold my breath for 10 minutes (yet).

I can type halfway decent on a message board.


Funny, I've never hear women mention this when it comes to what they want in a man.

Well, you are a funny guy. You just proved it with this post. (what you said is true too)

Now I have to get a paper towel to wipe all the pop off my keyboard.

-Once you get to know me, I'm very open and a great conversationalist. Likewise, I also become charming and humorous rather than my usual seriousness.
-Silent confidence. Exudes strong, silent type of demeanor.
-Lean body type. Well toned and not skin and bones.
-Willing to accept others for who they are.
-Loyal, committed type.
-Willing to admit it when I'm wrong.
-Excellent listener.
-Not materialistic, or at least strive to be.
-A degree of sophistication.
-Always willing to learn more.

How long can a good catch sit on the shelf before it turns bad? 4 years now...

-smart (well above average, usually highest score in class)
-nice looks (people say this to me.. but i'm not sure about it myself)
-kind
-accepting differences
that's about it... Despite all that, any girl who likes me "at first" would stop liking me when they know what I'm rly like (this happened quite a few times) or when I try to approach them back and always fail at it.. No confidence whatsoever.
If I were to list the BAD things about me, it would have been like 100x the length of this post... I don't have any confidence or knowledge and always fail in how to "get close" with women. Not to mention how weird I am..

ahem *you're = you f**cking are

I understand your concern and title will be changed appropiately right now but there are better ways of getting your message across that dont involve cursing.

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I am very caring, supportive, loyal/devoted. I like to discuss, address & work on issues together with my partner. I greatly value my relationship & partner & will do whatever I can to try & make things work & to see her happy.

i'm not but think i am

Hmm, physically, I'm fit and enjoy staying healthy (Minus the pack of Camels a day that is). I'm protective but not jealous or particularly clingy, I enjoy listening and giving advice where I can to people I care about, frugal but financially secure, I keep people on their toes, and I'm always up for an adventure at any given time, other than bedtime. Very family oriented, and I know stuff, some of it even practical!

Another reason I'm a good catch is that I am somewhat trainable. I do have quite a lot of disabilities, limitations, issues, problems & am dependent as a result but I really do want to improve myself. One of the bigger rezones why I want a relationship is so I can have someone to be there for support as I try to learn & it would be great if she wanted to try to teach me so I could be less of a burden on her & help take care of her more. I want to be a better person for my partner.

1. I look hot naked (I'm given to understand this is high social currency).
2. I always remember names. I am GREAT with names.
3. I am unconventional.
4. I am a very good problem solver.
5. I am reasonable and do not make snap judgments. I am thoughtful and will learn about something before deciding what I think about it.
6. I am really funny.
7. I know a lot of things on a wide range of subjects.
8. I am careful with grammar (not perfect).
9. I write well.
10. I am very honest.

I don't smoke weed and party rock in the house all night.

-i treat my girls like gold.

-i keep the FRIEND is boyfriend and the LOVE in lover

-im faithful (unlike my ex) and generous (once again, unlike my ex)

-im ALWAYS there

-im masculine as much as i am sensitive

-my hair :p