Cute Hostle Girl round2. Need Advice please

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I posted here before asking for advice approaching a cute girl im staying 6 weeks in a hostle with. I got great advice. She had had a bad day and was expecting worse when see went into work early in the morning. I left her a nice note and some chocolate. Appently it turned her whole day around before it started.
She left a nice note and we went on a date. it was actualy fun. But I didnt kiss her at the end, she responded with something like "is it because i talk too much?" not explicitly mentioning a kiss. it was a cobination of the usual awkwaedness with social stuff and contact and the abigius situation of both going to the same place. im not dropping her off and leaving.

Since then there have been some cute looks im not sure how to react to and she was talking to her mother and friends about me, in a good way but the situation is loosibg moment.

Tonight before I went to bed I drew a scretch of her and left it with a shot note Implying that I dont want to make her feel uncomfertable. Its an excuse, well partialy.

I realy like this girl and she likes me. please help. where are my next steps, was not kissing her sonething I can come back from. please break it down for me as much as possible.

And seriusly thank you to everyone who responded before I wouldnt have gotten this far without you, please help the success continue.

Picknick sounds nice if it wasnt for the wheather. Suck it up, create the opertunity and kiss her in other words. The thats what I have to do.

Ok so how much is too far. I was thinking about doing down to her work my be bring her lunch but Im not sure if that would be nice or weird.
she works really hard and doesnt really get any breaks.
Id love to cook her dinner this evening but that doesnt give any privacy.

Also when shes looking at all flirty, ofationaly winking. what should i do back. When I dont know what to do I always give the impression that Im ignoring them. this isnt what I want to do but short of staring at her.

Dude, she likes you. Huzzah!

You keep the attitude that this isn't a big deal. You're the suave suitor, everything you do is perfect. (Don't let her think you're going OCD on the situation.)

Body language is a toughie. Sure, by all means, match her level of flirting.

Not kissing isn't a big deal. She mighta liked it. She likes you. That's the important thing.

Showing too serious interest scares her off. Experience is the best way to gauge what this means. I think it takes a few love interests to get comfortable and competent with it.

For now, I'd keep it down to one date a week for a while and see how it goes. She likely wants space at work.

It's better to leave her wanting more of your time, than to overwhelm her. She's not running away. And you want to keep it that way

Relationships with hostile women scare me, I prefer compliant, quiet and neat girls

My sister was hostile as all hell, and scared me for life

It's like a hotel, but more awesomer.

Ok wasn't sure where I stud until today when she winked at me again.
I went out to see some of the city when I came back she was being
playful with one of the guys and she winked at him.
I think I should chalk this up to a learning experience and move on.
This is possibly the forth opportunity like this due to not making a move
physically. I'm not good at dipping my toe in the watch, more of a jump
in feet first kind of guy. Pity there isn't a (conceptual) romanic equivalent.

[quote=RobotGreenAlien2]This is possibly the forth opportunity like this due to not making a move physically.[/quote]

Do you think that she is ignorant of the fact that you are/were interested in her?