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hale_bopp wrote:
In all honesty, I don't know. They sound extremely negative. Perhaps you can pretend to be staunch and not caring around them? Oh and dress like you like metal.
I made a thread about that
Asking some questions in: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4048010.html#4048010
I'm sure they're not all like that but many are. but if I just behave like a thug what's to distinguish me from the other men there? I usually like to distinguish myself through my impeccable speech and manners.
27 Sep 2011, 10:24 pm
OldFashioned wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
In all honesty, I don't know. They sound extremely negative. Perhaps you can pretend to be staunch and not caring around them? Oh and dress like you like metal.
I made a thread about that
Asking some questions in: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4048010.html#4048010
I'm sure they're not all like that but many are. but if I just behave like a thug what's to distinguish me from the other men there? I usually like to distinguish myself through my impeccable speech and manners.
I honestly don't think many girls who like grunge and heavy metal care about that sort of thing. If you want to catch them, you have to appeal to them. You said you didn't want to marry them. What's the problem then? Just pretend to be like that to get sex and go back to yourself when it's over.
27 Sep 2011, 10:25 pm
27 Sep 2011, 10:26 pm
hale_bopp wrote:
OldFashioned wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
In all honesty, I don't know. They sound extremely negative. Perhaps you can pretend to be staunch and not caring around them? Oh and dress like you like metal.
I made a thread about that
Asking some questions in: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4048010.html#4048010
I'm sure they're not all like that but many are. but if I just behave like a thug what's to distinguish me from the other men there? I usually like to distinguish myself through my impeccable speech and manners.
I honestly don't think many girls who like grunge and heavy metal care about that sort of thing. If you want to catch them, you have to appeal to them. You said you didn't want to marry them. What's the problem then? Just pretend to be like that to get sex and go back to yourself when it's over.
So, like what do I say when I first approach her?
27 Sep 2011, 10:29 pm
I listen to metal. 
27 Sep 2011, 10:37 pm
Brianruns10 wrote:
OldFashioned wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Come at them with a welder.
Serious answers please?
I gave a serious answer, best I could. But if you're just after sex, you're on your own. I don't care to pick up women purely for sex. Sex is meaningless to me without love and mutual desire built on trust and companionship. It's just base, bestial, animal behavior, and I don't respect people who engage in that, because it's an insult to all the progress we've made to transcend those qualities.
Just grow a pair and jump in and talk to one. Best case scenario it works, and you both satisfy your animal urges (albeit feeling a bit empty and dirty in the morning). Worst case is she calls you out for the sex-obssessed twerp you are, who looks at them, and thinks they're just a walking vagina without feelings, hopes, desires, or dreams like girls who dress "normally." Well, the worst I guess would be she says nothing and simply knees you in the groin. Either way, you'll deserve it.
I used to think like you but there are times when you can't find someone to love and need to... Seek to satisfy other needs. No reason to be mean!
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I listen to metal.
I didn't say they were all like that. But the ones I met, you know with the black leather and all they were like "What bands do you like?" so I list a couple of metal bands and then I move on to other genres and she goes "You're pathetic, I only talk to people who like good music and that means listen only to metal." then another chick told me "You don't dance to metal you idiot", at last one pushed me and went "Dress f*****g nice when you come to a club like this"... (By nice she meant not wearing jeans and an oxford shirt and a pair of moccasins...)
So yeah, there are many chicks like that it seems.
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27 Sep 2011, 10:40 pm
OldFashioned wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I listen to metal.
I didn't say they were all like that. But the ones I met, you know with the black leather and all they were like "What bands do you like?" so I list a couple of metal bands and then I move on to other genres and she goes "You're pathetic, I only talk to people who like good music and that means listen only to metal." then another chick told me "You don't dance to metal you idiot", at last one pushed me and went "Dress f***ing nice when you come to a club like this"... (By nice she meant not wearing jeans and an oxford shirt and a pair of moccasins...)
So yeah, there are many chicks like that it seems.
Why bother trying to flirt with them? They're unpleasant people, and I imagine if you do get somewhere with one you'd be miserable.
It's a shame some people think musical taste defines a person.
27 Sep 2011, 10:43 pm
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
OldFashioned wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I listen to metal.
I didn't say they were all like that. But the ones I met, you know with the black leather and all they were like "What bands do you like?" so I list a couple of metal bands and then I move on to other genres and she goes "You're pathetic, I only talk to people who like good music and that means listen only to metal." then another chick told me "You don't dance to metal you idiot", at last one pushed me and went "Dress f***ing nice when you come to a club like this"... (By nice she meant not wearing jeans and an oxford shirt and a pair of moccasins...)
So yeah, there are many chicks like that it seems.
Why bother trying to flirt with them? They're unpleasant people, and I imagine if you do get somewhere with one you'd be miserable.
It's a shame some people think musical taste defines a person.
Sex and Music. It's not there to last, and I don't have to work as hard as in a real relationship. I can't seem to find a 'good' girl so maybe I'll find a bad girl for sex who is looking for the same thing as I, sex?
27 Sep 2011, 10:48 pm
27 Sep 2011, 10:49 pm
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
If that's really what you want, OldFashioned, then I suggest going to Hot Topic (or the equivalent of) and getting some new clothes. Then, stick strictly to metal when speaking of music.
Honestly, though, I have lived that life and it turned out to be very lonely. I won't ever go back to it, and I'll never condone it.
Honestly, though, I have lived that life and it turned out to be very lonely. I won't ever go back to it, and I'll never condone it.
You were a metaller chick?
Noooo way
What is Hot Topic?
Honestly I don't know what I want. The only thing I'm sure of is I need to have fun. And I want to have sex! Lots of it.
I know, I know, I'm a bad person, I know. I feel guilty about it...
