Need some honest opinion.... ladies, would u date me?

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Do you think I am attractive or could be very appealing to women? In real life I don't "pose" I am very shy both in camera and in real life........ i have huge confidence issues in all areas and i am tremendously insecure about every facet of my appearance.

Please give me honest opinions on what you think I could improve on. I desperately would like to know so I can make improvements in my quest to meet girls in real life. Thanks.

(also, sorry, my webcam snaps a pic as soon as I press the button and it is very hard for me to get a straight shot)

You have an attractive body and a nice face, plus you look clean and nicely presented (from what I can see). Physically I don't think there's anything necessarily you need to improve upon, although maintaining good health is an ongoing thing.

I can't tell much about your personality from a photo unfortunately.

You're very well built. Muscles aren't really my thing, but a lot of ladies go for them. I do enjoy a good, long shower, though, and your water heater appears to be in excellent condition.

I wouldn't want to compete against you! Always remember...

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Thank you for your great comments. You have made me a happy Penguin today. (I should try and post some other pic later..... I think I am too nervous to do some shirtless pic, but I feel too tired and flat atm anyway?)

You look lovely, but for a dating website I think you should try and find a more "domestic" background!

I agree with Marcia about finding a better background for your pictures. Sunshine and natural light are much more flattering to make you look healthy and not washed out.

I don't feel that a man needs to have shirtless photos to attract a date. You wont be shirtless on the date, I hope, so why would you need to present that right away at the beginning? Just because other guys do it does not mean you have to do that.

I have read that wearing the color red makes people instantly more attractive, and I have found this to be true in general. A nice red shirt, especially a button up shirt with a collar could be nice for your purposes.

I know this isn't photo related, but if a guy smells really nice that is a huge plus. And not like cheap axe body products for 14 year olds either, an actual fragrance that is for grown ups. If a woman meets you and when she leaves thinks to herself how good you smell, that is a really good first impression.

Good luck!

Online answers do not reflect reality because you can't show the required input online.

To know the real answer of your question, you'd have to ask out girls, and based on the failure/success rate you'd know if there's something wrong about you/or about your approach....

Cheers...... sorry I did not put more thought in to background + lighting............ :s

I agree about using a shirtless photo, I don't think it's tasteful.

<--- Boo thinking: "What the hell those crazy girls are talking about?

He's wearing a white t-shirt in both pictures."

Also, for what it is worth, I have no interest at all in trying any "dating site" and there is no way in hell I'd ever run that gauntlet and try and solicit women on those.

I really think that all of the women who sign up for those dating sites just do so to see what kind of propositions they get from pathetic guys, and most have no intent to actually communicate.

I'm awful anyway at writing such emails to "break ice" Also, I'm s**t at putting together a profile and anything I did would sound so incredibly lame and forced (Describe my interests, my personality...... lol (I have none)) I can never think of stuff to write..... at least stuff that builds me up and makes me sound appealing.

I know it sounds odd but I think relatively I cut a much better impression face2face than I would ever do on some dating site.

You look like you're in good shape and you're not deformed, so far so good.
But you did use 'u' as a word, so that automatically disqualifies you

And ZZ Top is sweet.