How does one know if one is truly in love?

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04 Dec 2011, 1:21 pm

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04 Dec 2011, 3:04 pm

I know I love someone if I want to spend time with them. I know someone loves me if they want to do the same.



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04 Dec 2011, 6:06 pm

If it turns pink or you see two plus signs, it's love.



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04 Dec 2011, 6:18 pm

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04 Dec 2011, 11:14 pm

I'm not really shore how one would define love, but I know I have seen it. I saw it while watching my dad's cousin and his wife interact :D Those two have been married for 56 years.


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05 Dec 2011, 12:02 am

ull usualy find an arrow with a heart shape point at the end stuck somewhere on ur body, the buttocks is generaly where ull find it :wink:

but honestly its hard to say becuz alot of people can confuse lov with admiration and even obsession

for me i knew i was in lov with a girl when she was around i felt happy and when she left after we had hungout i didnt feel bad becuz she was no longer their (like i had felt with other girls) but instead i just felt happy that i got to spend time with her

like the memories i had made with her were so strong, that the happy feelings never faded

im usualy very good at discribing how i feel and with me trying realy hard not to get poetic the above^^ is about the best i can do....hope it helps


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05 Dec 2011, 6:16 am

I'm not sure. I'm trying to figure this out with the bf. We've been together for 4 1/2 months and I still like him a lot and enjoy his company. Not to say I don't enjoy the company of my friends, I just don't let them get that close to me like he does. I guess that's part of it, emotional closeness.



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05 Dec 2011, 6:36 am

Me, yesterday, said this:

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Do you know what love is? It's when you love the other person for the faults just as much as you do for their other parts. It's when you love the slightly bigger-than-average nose and think it's cute and lovely, even when it isn't to others. It's when you love the circles under the other's eyes that are permanently there, and feel familiarity because you have them too. It's when you see the other in a picture where they're bedraggled or otherwise not groomed to perfection in the morning, and they're staring at the camera with a not-so-loving-look, and you find it one of the most beautiful pictures you've ever seen.


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