Ideal partner

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Ideal partner would be:

- Have a nice personality
- Understanding
- Intelligent
- have common interests
- Honest

Intelligent and mentally challneging- I cannot enjoy anything else.

Someone I wouldn't get tired of- ever. I have met at least one person like this, so they do exist.

Forthright and honest, straightforward. Essential!

They have to smell right.

Similar interests and the ability to tolerate my getting obsessed about a subject or interest for months or years at a time.

A sense of equality and balance, no condescension or control trips or superiority/inferiority complexes.

Trust

But also, they have to resonate with me...I don't know how else to say that.

my ideal partner is just the guy i like! can be an untimate emo kid or a ghetto wannabe person or an overly athletic type, i don't care, gotta be sweet and care about me

I think...
-nice
-not noisy
-intelligent
-nice voice (not squeky or high pitched)
-doesn't mind my obsessions and going off on tangents

someone who likes me!

anyone who'll have me. i havent got room for ideals in this area of my life

car_crash; if you think that way, you'll find somebody for sure. But they'll be mean.

i never have any offers but. i'm a bit of a hermit though

- red hair
- strong
- insanely honest (because I am, too)
- a girl who'll get me whipped (in a good way!)

For the last point, I think we Aspies tend to live in our own little world, contemplating our navel. An ideal mate will force us out of that world, and show us the importance of daily reality. (no matter how annoying it is!)

Honest and understanding - very important
Physically attractive (to me).
Kind, and laid back.
Not intense about the relationship.
Share similar interests.
I like people to smell nice too, but anyone can vary their degree of hygene with a bit of encouragement.

I get this one..... a strong caring woman can make you do the stuff you can't be bothered to do, and help you to consider society. There is nothing wrong with being hyperfocused but a partner can make you go outside now and then.....

did you mean physically strong or mentally strong? (mind boggles)

dunc

Strong as in.. well, hmm.. mentally, emotionally. Plenty of girls I have met are simply emotional train wrecks (they just hide it well!)

Secretly I want a girl who’ll take care of me and put up with my crap. Sadly, smart girls know that I should be able to do it myself. Boo!

bit of give and take, sinewave - you look after me sometimes, i'll look after you others.

it's all about dynamic balance, with the emphasis on dynamic - 50:50 at all times gives a straight line. and straight lines on certain oscilloscopes = flat line = dead.

True, true

tell you what, sinewave - make that "purple-ish hair with silver streaks" and you've got a deal!



lol

Oh? Ah.. I see. Left-leaning, Punk-ish, sexy English accent? Yay!