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Kaelynn
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18 Dec 2011, 12:21 am

I have hung out with my ex boyfriend and our friends twice in the past two weeks. I thought it would be odd for me to see my ex again but it wasnt because we have been talking on the phone almost every day for about a month now. When we hang out we still hand hands, hug and say we love each other. Its odd because we call each other 'buddys' but we dont act like we are buddys. We broke up in october and we started talking again at the very end of november. I dont know if its wrong that we act like we are still going out. Its so confuseing. Maybe we should get back together? There are reasons I would totally get back together with him but there are reasons that I would not. 1 reason that I would not is because I dont trust him around other girls. And also he can be a bit a pervert some times. But what I like about him is that he is so friendly to every one he meets. Every one knows him and they all love him and he can be sweet and also very funny. Hes also a good looking guy Im not sure what to do. Im confused And on top of all of that I have no clue what his thoughts are on any of this. I dont know how he feels, I barley know how I feel. Any advice?



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18 Dec 2011, 4:57 pm

Kaelynn wrote:
I have hung out with my ex boyfriend and our friends twice in the past two weeks. I thought it would be odd for me to see my ex again but it wasnt because we have been talking on the phone almost every day for about a month now. When we hang out we still hand hands, hug and say we love each other. Its odd because we call each other 'buddys' but we dont act like we are buddys. We broke up in october and we started talking again at the very end of november. I dont know if its wrong that we act like we are still going out. Its so confuseing. Maybe we should get back together? There are reasons I would totally get back together with him but there are reasons that I would not. 1 reason that I would not is because I dont trust him around other girls. And also he can be a bit a pervert some times. But what I like about him is that he is so friendly to every one he meets. Every one knows him and they all love him and he can be sweet and also very funny. Hes also a good looking guy Im not sure what to do. Im confused And on top of all of that I have no clue what his thoughts are on any of this. I dont know how he feels, I barley know how I feel. Any advice?


Step relatively carefully. You owe it to yourself to keep yourself sane and content, not to keep him sane and content. More than this is really hard to say.



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19 Dec 2011, 1:43 am

Kaelynn wrote:
Any advice?


Actions speak louder than words, being sweet, funny or good looking isn't an indicator of good character. If you don't trust him, there is no hope of having a relationship since without trust, a relationship is pointless and painful. However if you mutually broke up over a disagreement and not a breach of trust, I would give him another chance so that he can prove he is loyal or trustworthy.

However most high school relationships don't last so I would say just enjoy yourself, enjoy being a fourteen year old. You sound like a responsible girl so I think you know what is best for yourself, you know him better than us.