I Met A Girl Today!! !!

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My mom works with the Severely Emotionally Disturbed at Madera South High School and she took me to work with her today to meet her students, she has several autistic students including 2 with Asperger Syndrome and one of the 2, her name is Kristen, i talked to and we like immediately hit it off because we have so much in common. we talked about books, Star Wars, video games, and music. we are both very negative and critical about ourselves, she is REALLY pretty but she doesn't see it so we both ended up complimenting each other a lot. let me put it this way, when i first saw her walk in, i was amazed at such beauty that time seemed to stop for a second because she is so stunningly beautiful. she doesn't think she is even though me and my mom told her otherwise. i walked into my moms bedroom and she was talking to my grandma about me and Kristen.

Kristen is a Junior and just turned 17, im a Senior and im turning 18 January 2nd.

my biggest problem is the distance i mean Madera is a 45 minute DRIVE from Merced, i am getting my drivers licence soon and we have 3 cars right now, but my mom getting another soon so we have extras so i wouldn't interfere with anyones schedules but i would love to try dating her, if she were up for it, she seems to like me and my mom says we look cute together, one of the other teachers took a picture of us together today lol. unfortunately i wont be able to see her again until January 9th at the earliest

i'm gonna keep my fingers crossed

Have you any means of contacting the young lady ? Do you have her phone number or email address, also is she able to travel ?

I wish you luck, just be careful and try to enjoy yourself in a safe, calm and adult way.

I have no idea how experienced you are regarding the fairer sex and relationships, but I would strongly advise you not to "chat her up". Unlike in the films normal real women can not be flipped from their normal state into sex mad sirens with some magic combination of words. Also if a women spots that you are trying a "chat up line" then it will oftein typically irk them.

My advice is to talk to her at first about anything (even the weather) at first and nothing contraversal (eg do not ask her if she thinks Clarence Thomas is morally fit to be a supreme court judge).

AWESOME!! !! sounds like you two really had some chemistry, how sweet! yes, get your license and yes, date her.

Emotionally disturbed, as in special ed classes? They told me that was the reason I was in special ed. Of course their weren't anyone in there like you described. Most were ugly, slow, stupid, pathetic, no hopers that you can tell had no shot to get anywhere worthwhile in life just by looking at them. (myself included)


Congrats on finding someone though, I hope everything goes well.

in my moms class their are kids with schizophrenia, autism, cerebral palsey, etc. most of her kids mainstream in general ed classes as well, very few are with my mom all day. her class is more of a support room where her kids go to escape. they usually end the day in there. it's like a small family when one kid makes a decision, such as getting off medication, they have a class discussion with teachers and students regarding their feelings i have never seen such caring or such honesty, i nearly cried listening to them when Jorge, one of the schizophrenic kids, wanted to get off his medication. Jorge is a big guy, the only time the voices stop is when he works out so he is a really big guy, he once went without his medication and ended up putting Madera Highs best security guard in the hospital, the guard is crippled now. the students told him he is like a teddy bear, and they love the teddy but not the bear, the bear scares them

best of luck to you man. be sure not to be too eager because that might scare her off!! !

just let her know you think she is really pretty, and you are super into her, and you would like to see where it goes. dont call or text her or email her every 10 minutes. its best if you talk only a handful of times every week till you are actually dating i think (like dont talk to her every day. talk to her maybe 3 times a week, and see her maybe once a week in person for 1-3 hours, but no longer than that).

be sure to let us know how it goes!

im gonna see if my mom can take me with her to her work with her at least once a month until i graduate high school this June if anything comes out of this then i can go with my mom almost every day if i wanted and drive out there myself every now and then to go see her

I agree, don't become clingy or attached if you haven't engaged in a relationship because you will end up disappointed if there is some reason if it doesn't work out. I am saying that by all means, you should take this opportunity but you shouldn't depend on it completely. Don't become too clingy, keep her on her toes and keep her guessing, she will soon chase up on it.

If I might just say it sounds like she may have had a little or no experience in relationships. Take things slowly and easy. Above all that though remember she is in an Emotionally Disturbed place so at times she can have some times when she will need her space and that applies to all kinds of female humans. As long as you don't push this onto her, this could work out.

she has about as much relationship experience as me, which is little to none lol

im just so glad im almost 18, just a little over a week