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Bun
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10 Jan 2012, 9:23 am

Can't date an entire band, plus one of them is dead.

[I'm not really single.]

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10 Jan 2012, 9:35 am

Bun wrote:

[I'm not really single.]

Only single people should post here! That is lying!

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10 Jan 2012, 9:38 am

Mwahaha.

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10 Jan 2012, 11:32 am

chrissyrun wrote:

It is.

No, faith is a product of life experience and attitude.
No, nobody is the devil. If you do things that you know are wrong intentionally, that is wrong...but if you don't know then you aren't.
Eh, the people thing as well. Well, it is hard to be both in the religion and in the church but it is awesome.

:lol:

Let's get that fixed then

(jk)

Yeah you're right about that. Just seems depressing to think about sometimes...then again, on the other hand, back when I was "supposed" to be Christian, I'd almost always been questioning my faith anyway, so maybe there's not much a difference in how I'd view my life one way or the other.

I don't know...I honestly think it would help if my brain was screwed up by some doctor...hell, it doesn't even have to be a doctor.

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10 Jan 2012, 12:05 pm

Obres wrote:

There's only one reason for any adult to be single: lack of ambition. If you really wanted someone, were willing to accept someone suitable, and were prepared to take the necessary steps to meet and pursue such a person, anyone could find someone.

That does NOT seem to be working for me. I'm mostly just looking for someone who will give me a chance who will try to make our relationship work but that seems impossible for me to find. Or maybe I'm just not suitable with anyone because I'm very unique even for an Aspie

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10 Jan 2012, 12:16 pm

nick007 wrote:

I'm just not suitable with anyone because I'm very unique even for an Aspie

NO.

IF ANYONE IN THE WORLD (I mean anyone anyone, anyone, anyone, anyone....gets that title, tis me!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !)

Seriously, I recommend you hand the title over very slowly and nobody gets hurt. I am the most unique aspie.

Boxman108 wrote:

Yeah....well maybe you can find faith again if it is important to you.
Maybe....who knows.

I don't want my head messed up more than it already is...my mind is screwy lewy but I'm proud of it for what it has and will go through.

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10 Jan 2012, 12:35 pm

I don't think anyone should have to make a compromise in order to find a partner. Sure, some might be more shallow than others, but I feel that if I had to give up certain values, it really would not be love and thus would not be worth it; I'd feel just as empty inside, if not more so, than if I'd stayed alone.

chrissyrun wrote:

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Yeah....well maybe you can find faith again if it is important to you.
Maybe....who knows.

I don't want my head messed up more than it already is...my mind is screwy lewy but I'm proud of it for what it has and will go through.

Maybe, just maybe. I think I had a prophecy about how the world might end, but it turned out to be a relatively silly dream. But if it does happen, my faith could be renewed.

Joking aside, I guess I'd have to agree. I do wonder how life might have been if I was "normal", but before I started coming here, I never thought about it. Perhaps I shouldn't let it get to me.

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10 Jan 2012, 12:53 pm

Hard to narrow it down to just one reason, but.........it would be VERY difficult to find a guy who's a good match for me, but would still fit in with my family.

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10 Jan 2012, 3:05 pm

Ugliness

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10 Jan 2012, 3:58 pm

If I were 20 years older and had a daughter who came home with a boyfriend who is a carbon copy me I'd probably feel sorry for her.

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10 Jan 2012, 4:52 pm

Not leaving the house much
Quiet, awkward at small talk
Not outwardly interesting
Asexual
Very strong moral standards, hence picky
Lazy
Low self-esteem

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10 Jan 2012, 5:32 pm

^ Le Petit Prince and Dr. Who in one?

lol that would be my next username's avatar (in case i get banned and then resurrected into a new username again.....)

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10 Jan 2012, 5:44 pm

Did you actually used to be LePetitPrince, Boo?

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10 Jan 2012, 5:53 pm

faerie_queene87 wrote:

Not leaving the house much
Quiet, awkward at small talk
Not outwardly interesting
Asexual
Very strong moral standards, hence picky
Lazy
Low self-esteem

Same here except I'm not very picky even thou I do have high moral standards for myself, I am a hard worker when I see the point in doing the task or when I'm able to find a job but my family & others think I'm lazy, & I feel fairly good about myself but I am very aware of my limitations & that others won't accept me but that looks like very low self-esteem to most others

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10 Jan 2012, 6:13 pm

High standards, I have very high standards to date someone. I have a decent amount of turn offs both physical and mental.

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10 Jan 2012, 6:15 pm

I'm happy being single if people only want sex from me. =.=

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