i can't be friends with guys

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i always had female friends.
everytime i had a guy come into my life, i always expect that he'll like me and then date me. then i lose that person.
i also dont get crushes like i used to because in the past, i would tell the guy i like him, he gives me that "i like you as a friend" speech, so i guess you can say that i don't trust guys because i dont want to get hurt.

You need to set yourself some rules so next time you meet someone, you put them in a "category" If you like. For an example," I will not date anyone with greasy hair" or" I will not date anyone who shows no kindness towards people". This way, as soon as you meet someone you know whether you'd date them or not.
I think you're probably a bit lonely so you hope getting in to a relationship will make it go away. But things aren't that simple. There're so many different people out there and you need to choose the ones who're best for you.

If you don't find this helpful, keep a diary or something. Write your feelings down for that person rather than telling them. Also, If you find yourself liking a person you don't want to, Always concentrate on the bad things about that person, until you think to yourself, He's not my type.