Does Anyone Else Find Themselves Obsessed?

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16 Jan 2012, 1:26 am

It's a bit of a problem I have. I crave relationships. To me life and love are intertwined and one should never exist without the other. Obviously this leads to some issues :lol:

Anyone else have this problem? Or know of any ways of dealing with it?

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16 Jan 2012, 1:39 am

Had the same problem here. Thought it'd doom me for a couple years before I learned how to deal with it, but noooo, something much better happened.

I found someone who was just as obsessed with me as I was with her. Sorry it wasn't the solution you were hoping for, but that's what happened with me. However, I can relate to your experiences. If you wanna talk about'm in depth and have me share my own in turn, feel free to shoot me up a PM. Not literally, just send me a PM instead of shooting it up. Wouldn't want to get you high.

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16 Jan 2012, 2:07 am

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16 Jan 2012, 5:57 am

abacacus wrote:

Anyone else have this problem? Or know of any ways of dealing with it?

Yes but i do NOT consider it a problem. My way of dealing with it is by hoping I can find a woman who's very clingy & needy because there will be no problem if I had a partner who was the same way with me

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16 Jan 2012, 6:12 am

I think I made my peace with that. I've lost that crave somewhere on the way hopefully I will be lucky enough to find that joy again.
Art is a very good idea indeed.

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16 Jan 2012, 8:28 am

I crave it at rare intervals in my life, but to me women of my age group seem far too self absorbed, shallow and materialistic for me to get involved with, and even if there were any matches for me I just don't see what I can gain from a relationship that I can't gain anywhere else.

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16 Jan 2012, 1:59 pm

purchase wrote:

Make art

I do, I am a fanatical musician. It is my life.

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16 Jan 2012, 3:19 pm

nick007 wrote:

abacacus wrote:

Anyone else have this problem? Or know of any ways of dealing with it?

*Ahem* Well then, nice to meet you, Nick. I'm lucky like you hope to be. So it IS possible. You're welcome for me showing you it is possible.

My age has nothing to do with it!! ! :evil:

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16 Jan 2012, 9:02 pm

There are times I think how it'd be nice to be in a relationship. Like when I have a bad case of cold I wish there was someone who can take care of me; like someone who can make me a bowl of chicken noodle soup (or nuking it works too I guess). Then sometimes I'm glad I'm not in a relationship when friends ask me for advice because of boyfriend problems, husband problems, etc.

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17 Jan 2012, 12:04 am

I'm the same way.
I don't know if there's a cure for it.
I'd be miserable, if not for bf.

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21 Jan 2012, 12:03 am

ArtemisHolmes wrote:

I found someone who was just as obsessed with me as I was with her.

I wish I could find that!

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