A quote about relationships few of you may like

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23 Jan 2012, 6:30 pm

“No, I don’t think you’re gonna be single forever, and also I don’t understand your obsession with romantic love. There are other ways to have fulfilling relationships that can sustain you and make your life great and fun, other than having a sexualised relationship. It’s not the only kind of fulfilling human interaction. So, even if you are single forever, that doesn’t mean that you’ve had some kind of failed life.” -John Green



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23 Jan 2012, 7:25 pm

I dig this.



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23 Jan 2012, 7:28 pm

Or you're just one of those 60 year old guys you see on Speed Channel on Saturday morning working on their small block Chevys....



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23 Jan 2012, 8:38 pm

I've got a quote that I feel is share worthy!! Not sure if it's about relationships, but I know it's definitely about love. I actually find it to be so true! :D
"Love is irrational, I reminded myself. The more you loved someone, the less sense anything made." -Kristen Stewart



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23 Jan 2012, 9:01 pm

Asp-Z wrote:
“No, I don’t think you’re gonna be single forever, and also I don’t understand your obsession with romantic love. There are other ways to have fulfilling relationships that can sustain you and make your life great and fun, other than having a sexualised relationship. It’s not the only kind of fulfilling human interaction. So, even if you are single forever, that doesn’t mean that you’ve had some kind of failed life.” -John Green


Hear, hear!



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23 Jan 2012, 9:10 pm

Everyone finds true love in the end, just at the least expected time



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23 Jan 2012, 9:17 pm

I agree that I could still be happy, although I do feel I'd be missing out on a big part of life without a romantic relationship. But it's obviously a lot more complicated than a black-and-white matter of being happy or unhappy in life, as there are shades of happiness.



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23 Jan 2012, 9:53 pm

Asp-Z wrote:
“No, I don’t think you’re gonna be single forever, and also I don’t understand your obsession with romantic love. There are other ways to have fulfilling relationships that can sustain you and make your life great and fun, other than having a sexualised relationship. It’s not the only kind of fulfilling human interaction. So, even if you are single forever, that doesn’t mean that you’ve had some kind of failed life.” -John Green


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Personally, I believe if you aren't happy with who you are single, you shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with.


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23 Jan 2012, 9:56 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Personally, I believe if you aren't happy with who you are single, you shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with.

Now THAT is profoundly truthful!



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23 Jan 2012, 10:08 pm

Asp-Z wrote:
“No, I don’t think you’re gonna be single forever, and also I don’t understand your obsession with romantic love. There are other ways to have fulfilling relationships that can sustain you and make your life great and fun, other than having a sexualised relationship. It’s not the only kind of fulfilling human interaction. So, even if you are single forever, that doesn’t mean that you’ve had some kind of failed life.” -John Green


Amazing quote! I'm tempted to add it to my list of favorite facebook quotes.



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23 Jan 2012, 10:59 pm

Sounds like making excuses.


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23 Jan 2012, 11:04 pm

Excuses for what?


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24 Jan 2012, 4:21 am

I agree, it does seem like an excuse for people who have given up on relationships and become bitter and jaded towards the idea of dating or finding love. I think every person craves to be accepted and valued for their creativity in one way or another, even if that creativity is in the identity they create for themselves.



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24 Jan 2012, 4:30 am

Ashuahhe wrote:
Everyone finds true love in the end, just at the least expected time


Not in this universe they don't. Perhaps your message escaped from the fairytale universe.



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24 Jan 2012, 4:33 am

anonymous-shyster wrote:
Ashuahhe wrote:
Everyone finds true love in the end, just at the least expected time


Not in this universe they don't. Perhaps your message escaped from the fairytale universe.


You're very egotistic if you truly think that, out of the 6,840,507,000 people on this planet, there's not one who you can fall in mutual love with.

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I agree, it does seem like an excuse for people who have given up on relationships and become bitter and jaded towards the idea of dating or finding love. I think every person craves to be accepted and valued for their creativity in one way or another, even if that creativity is in the identity they create for themselves.


There are plenty of people who are perfectly happy not being in a relationship.



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24 Jan 2012, 4:43 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
“No, I don’t think you’re gonna be single forever, and also I don’t understand your obsession with romantic love. There are other ways to have fulfilling relationships that can sustain you and make your life great and fun, other than having a sexualised relationship. It’s not the only kind of fulfilling human interaction. So, even if you are single forever, that doesn’t mean that you’ve had some kind of failed life.” -John Green


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Personally, I believe if you aren't happy with who you are single, you shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with.


Exactly.