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19 Mar 2012, 6:27 pm

To not be interested in anyone at all? :O Romantic wise


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19 Mar 2012, 6:29 pm

It's called being "aromantic".
It's statistically far from average.
But, then, so is red hair, being left-handed, double jointed, Aspie, and any number of other things which are normal.


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19 Mar 2012, 6:32 pm

ohhhh I see

Is there something that needs to be done about it because I am told I have no emotions at all and it bother people --I think I have emotions though just not the right ones I guess--


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19 Mar 2012, 6:35 pm

If you are aromantic then it's not the end of the world! If you don't like it then you don't like it, ytou are perfectly normal. :)


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19 Mar 2012, 6:38 pm

YAY! thanks :3

I mean I am attracted to people but not romantically....like looking at art


If that makes sense


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19 Mar 2012, 6:55 pm

You're lucky.

I envy you.



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19 Mar 2012, 6:58 pm

Ibrainwashedyou wrote:
ohhhh I see

Is there something that needs to be done about it because I am told I have no emotions at all and it bother people --I think I have emotions though just not the right ones I guess--


Anyone who seeks to tell you whether you have emotions or not is attempting to define your reality based on their own pre-conceived projections.
Screw THAT noise.


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19 Mar 2012, 7:37 pm

I find someone who I'm actually excited about maybe once every 5 years? If I'm not right there with you I'm at least pretty close.


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19 Mar 2012, 8:01 pm

I'm an aromantic asexual. It's rare but there's nothing wrong with it. Don't let people make you think otherwise.



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19 Mar 2012, 8:17 pm

thanks I will keep that in mind :3


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