aspie and proud to be so - how about this - once upon a time man was dedicated to his work, family, this was simply the way it was and survival and that was how it was - now man is dedicated to play his video games, smart phone, computer, sports, movies and the list continues - family o that's in there somewhere - dedecation to work are out of your mind - I think this creates a start to the fountation for what you are thinking about