Things you find attractive

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They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So what are the things you find attractive in the opposite or same sex. Me? I like women who can rock a really short haircut. Heck even bald is nice I think, if they have the right face for it.

Intelligence is the main thing I look for in a potienal mate.

Boldness. It's what drew me to my girl. Tiny thing, but she moves through a room like she's ten feet tall and could crush anyone who got in her way.

And wearing glasses.

And a cute butt.

It's been my experience that a girl/woman/female human who looks alright with hair tends to look alright without. Notably, this does not hold (in my view) for guys.

It's attractive to me when a woman's native language sounds interesting, or sexy. It's unattractive when a woman's native language sounds ugly when used in arguments.

Bonus points for a person with more than one fluent language.

I'm a sucker for a girl with an accent!

-Intelligence
-Honesty
-Sense of humor
-Dominance(at least more so than I have, anyway )
-Humility

Some less crucial details would be hair and eyes. Not really too specific, though the longer the hair the better. In more recent years I've noticed voice tends to play a bit of a role.

Regarding personality characteristics I like when the girl is somehow unusual (especially in the way she thinks), intelligent and kind.

Regarding looks, I like long straight hair and shiny eyes......

I take looks on a case by case basis because my perception of attractiveness/lack of attractiveness is all bound up with what I think of the personal as a person. I like smarty-pants because they're way more fun to talk to but the most attractive things ever in another person are kindness and honesty.

I like seeing perky, bouncing of the walls type girls. Looks-wise, while I adore blonde hair/blue eyes/cute face shape the most, it goes case-by-case, saying some certain combination of looks look hot together.

Sarcasm.

red or black hair, no bigger then a c cup, no extra pounds. the size of a girl is what I'm mostly concerned with, i like a girl that's much shorter then I and no more then 140lbs. as far as personality its all good as long as they aren't selfish or stuck up. and shes gotta have at least average intelligence. of course i would take just about any girl that actually likes me regardless.

oh and redneck chicks make me throw up, any girl that thinks she can "hang with the guys" can leave me alone lol.

red and brown hair, nerds, dorks, geeks, loveshy girls&boys

Cometics wise:
Ponytails
Glasses
I have heard that generally this is true for most guys, if a girl has a pony tail and/or glasses she appears more attractive. Obviously it is okay if she doesn't have those, that would be superficial.

Short (lol)
Funny
Smart
Nice
Confident

What's most important to me, and that's the unfortunate part, is that a girl has a certain subcultural attitude.
Something alternative, but unique, unlike the girls I've met so far, who could reasonably be divided into one of two groups.
Intelligence is very important, and that's a problem - girls considered 'intelligent' are also girls I can't stand because they're pretend-posh.

Basically, if any girl was attracted to me in the first place, I'd have the choice between unintelligent girls obsessed with phones and slu*ty clothes, and seemingly-intelligent girls obsessed with branded water and designer suits. None of those are very appealing to me.

I really find geeks hot, especially if they have glasses and are scrawny
Guess what my BF looks like? XD

I have recently discovered that I am highly attracted to a woman that is worldly wise and independened. A woman I know from college has recently moved to New York, and she has been living in Japan and England before, and when I read her facebook page, I couldn't help but feel both jealous (I mean, I am 25 and still where I was 5 years ago) and highly attracted to her.