Is something wrong with me?

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I've been going steady with my girlfriend since last November. I'd say our relationship is pretty good. The only thing missing is a healthy sex life-- we still have not done it. And, in all honesty, the thought of doing it...for some reason, makes me nervous.

I don't know what it is, but the prospect of finally doing it scares me more than I thought it would. You'd think that I would be looking forward to this, but instead I find myself trying to avoid it wherever possible. Is this normal? Is this something typical of aspies? In all honesty, I don't understand it myself, but the fact remains, I find myself not wanting to have sex.

I remember this story...
Well, maybe you need to find confidence in your gf which is one theory.
Another theory is that you could be in fear of what could happen, going wrong etc.
Personally you need to know that it doesn't hurt.
Also you need to be sure you are ready for this step... Especially if you both want to be a Mummy and Daddy at this point.