Irrational fear of rejection

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Taybot97
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Joined: 22 Feb 2012
Age: 29
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29 Apr 2012, 8:04 pm

First I have to say this isn't being rejected when asking a girl out, I'm past that part.
I am scarred of being rejected when I go to hold her hand or kiss her. I recently had a dream tht describes my fear greatly. I tried to hold her hand and she ran off crying. I remember her saying (still the dream) "I don't want your hand". Not something I want to expierence for real. It's not something I would either, she is now very comfortable with me. Just yesterday we were playing MW3 together and she leaned in and put weight on my shoulder. Not sure how to better explain it but hopefully you get what I mean. Anybody else have the same problem of irrationally afraid your SO won't like an act of affection even if your 90+% certain they will. Even better somebody who used to have the problem but go over it.