So There is a lady I have a crush for, she works at a bar... There is no other place i see her in town since we obviously live very seperate lives - She works, I work and go to school outside the city. I think she may have a thing for me though I can't be sure. I've told a off color joke which would have gone very badly but she liked it, which I take as a good sign .
her: Is this your $20.00 on the floor
me: yes..
Her: for all I know that $20.00 could be mine (it was genuinely mine, it just fell out of my wallet by accident.)
Me: It could be yours by the end of tonight.... Wink wink...
She took it with good humor so it was a disaster. She always recognizes me at the bar and know what I want most of the time.
the problem is, the time I do have time off, there are so many people that I don't have a change to talk to her 1 on 1 as I have in the past.
I know alot about her past - where she is from, her life growing up. she talks alot and I just sit there and listen which I like doing, the only reason I go there really.
I really want to ask her out on a date but of course I don't have the courage to do it. I feel especially uncomfortable hitting on her at her place of work, it sort of feels like stalking. I don't go there very often but still .
Has anyone ever asked someone out at where they work, if so, success, failure?... Good idea, bad idea?