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The_Face_of_Boo
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30 May 2012, 10:27 am

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Why are there 2 instances of this thread?


Her heart is too big for a one thread.



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30 May 2012, 10:31 am

Hugs to all! I'm ill at the moment though so don't get too close :D

I think the last time I got a hug irl was back on NYE...



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30 May 2012, 10:41 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
ToughDiamond wrote:
Why are there 2 instances of this thread?


Her heart is too big for a one thread.


But I've got the other one all to myself so far:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt199796.html



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30 May 2012, 10:54 am

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There's so many sad lonely guys in here


that is "life in the big smoke" i guess.



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30 May 2012, 1:50 pm

My hugs are free. Who wants a hug?



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30 May 2012, 2:23 pm

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you know you can actualy go to places where people do this in real life.


Prostitution is rather sleazy. :lol:


Or the church? They do give hugs there. On the plus side, they're free.

Personally, I hate to be touched by strangers.

Well if you don't like hugs, stay away from my church. :lol: And you don't have to accept hugs if you don't want them. I don't like unwanted hugs either.



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30 May 2012, 2:26 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
ToughDiamond wrote:
Why are there 2 instances of this thread?


Her heart is too big for a one thread.

Yep. :wink:
Actually it was crappy technology. It sends things twice all the time.



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30 May 2012, 2:52 pm

It's all rather nice of you, but I think this site is filled with a lot of lonely people in general.

Humans are social animals, and when you are not able to properly interpret social cues and thus become removed from society as a result.. you do get lonely.

But that problem doesn't change the fact that we are all, also still human beings with preferences and tastes that vary.. this prevents most of us from finding companionship because we are perpetually looking for something that fits our ideal.



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30 May 2012, 3:43 pm

rabbittss wrote:
It's all rather nice of you, but I think this site is filled with a lot of lonely people in general.

Humans are social animals, and when you are not able to properly interpret social cues and thus become removed from society as a result.. you do get lonely.

But that problem doesn't change the fact that we are all, also still human beings with preferences and tastes that vary.. this prevents most of us from finding companionship because we are perpetually looking for something that fits our ideal.

I have noticed some people on here are limiting their options by being too picky. I am not one of them. I am quite the opposite. I just need a good person who can put up w/ my numerous flaws.



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31 May 2012, 12:58 am

thedaywalker wrote:
you know you can actualy go to places where people do this in real life.

at my aspie meetups we all have a group hug afterwards :heart:



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31 May 2012, 1:00 am

Kinme wrote:
My hugs are free. Who wants a hug?

ME! :bounce: ME! :bounce:



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31 May 2012, 2:00 am

Thanks for the hug! I needed that! Have some back!

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31 May 2012, 5:58 am

I think that some of the problem is that there are so many men with bad social skills that just want casual sex while a lot of women lacking social skills really want relationships.



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31 May 2012, 6:46 am

I'm sure there are other ways you could make 'em feel better. How about a cuddle? You look quite cuddly, metaldanielle. And don't run yourself down so much, love. :)



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31 May 2012, 4:55 pm

auntblabby wrote:
Kinme wrote:
My hugs are free. Who wants a hug?

ME! :bounce: ME! :bounce:


*Hugs your eyeball* All better! ;D



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31 May 2012, 5:05 pm

Lonermutant wrote:
I think that some of the problem is that there are so many men with bad social skills that just want casual sex while a lot of women lacking social skills really want relationships.


Absolutely not true. I can't speak for all the guys here, but I personally am looking for a special someone.