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So I hung out with a dude, things got a bit intimate....but I think if I see him again I just want to do it as friends, because I felt nothing the entire time. I mean I liked the dude but yeah didn't do much for me so yeah, but I was honest about it. So anyways I guess that is what happens when I go out in public and have random dudes I find interesting talking to me.

You just gotta meet the right guy if you wana see sparks fly if you get my meaning

Yeah I don't know there is no way I could deal with a relationship right now anyways, if I see the dude again I'll tell him that.

That is a good thing Sweetleaf guys hate being lead on it is the best way to kill our ego though

Well yeah there was no leading on, we just decided we wanted to screw around some, nothing serious and then discussed maybe dating later down the road...but yeah I will have to be honest about things. I am not even sure the dude will call me back though but I am not worried about it since it was not all that serious for either of us. I said I wanted to hang out more if he did...but did not indicate I would date.

It sounds like you've already said to him everything that needs to be said.

You took a chance, had a little fun, it didn't pan out, oh well.

Gotta take chances to find the right one.

I totally agree.

Well it kind of did, the dude called me back and I talked to him....we're probably going to chill again. But yeah, its kind of stressing me out...like my younger brother thinks even though I am 22 I should not consider a dude who's 33 but then I feel like I am a fully matured adult and I have tried dating guys my age and it doesn't work I mean I really don't mind dudes a little older than me in fact sometimes I relate to them much easier. I just hate having to worry about what various people think of things...I mean I love my brother and all as well as other family but if I tried to live up to all their ideals Id go insane.

Do what makes you happy, everyone else is just going to have to get over it if they have a problem.
In saying that, you're going to have to make it clear to this guy that you like hanging out with him, but that's doesn't necessarily mean it's going to go anywhere.