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22 Jun 2012, 4:00 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

and another told me something like "well, I would try to change you if I like you" when i told her I am atheist.

What a fascinating first impression!! !

More disappointments will come, I am sure.

I would never message a Christian to talk about doubting let alone try and talk with them lol.

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22 Jun 2012, 4:42 am

Guys, compare this thread....

with this: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt191105.html ! !

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22 Jun 2012, 8:35 am

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Go to a dance class, learn to dance, meet wimmenz in dance class. Now that I'm figure skating, I'm at least meeting more girls, mind you I still suck with women, but I've met and made connections with some, moreso than I would have just playing Fallout at home. I think one of my problems is not having Facebook, at least one girl more or less wrote me off for that.

Let's see, next one. Start powerlifting. Become super strong. Gain confidence from being super strong and able to destroy whoever is in your path. Then once you start getting too fat from eating and lifting, cut down and then look like a bodybuilder.

No such thing as dance classes here. And I'm not interested in destroying my body the way you describe. I'm happy at my current weight and size.

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22 Jun 2012, 8:38 am

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1000Knives wrote:

No such thing as dance classes here. And I'm not interested in destroying my body the way you describe. I'm happy at my current weight and size.

No need for crazy bodybuilding, just tone your body, overmusculation is a turn off for most women.

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22 Jun 2012, 10:04 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

rabbittss wrote:

1000Knives wrote:

No such thing as dance classes here. And I'm not interested in destroying my body the way you describe. I'm happy at my current weight and size.

No need for crazy bodybuilding, just tone your body, overmusculation is a turn off for most women.

Well you can certainly stay at about your current weight and size for powerlifting, you'll just have to eat less, there's weight classes from like 110lbs to superheavy, which is like 275. So if you wanna stay your same size, just eat less.

I'm quite odd, bodybuilding couldn't motivate me at all, like I tried doing machines and curls and stuff and was just like "this is boring as s**t." Then I started doing squats for ice skating and I was like "man lifting up heavy stuff is fun." It's like a video game, you know? The muscles you gain are purely coincidental.

No dance classes, where do you live, like Saudi Arabia?

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22 Jun 2012, 10:22 am

1000Knives wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

rabbittss wrote:

1000Knives wrote:

No such thing as dance classes here. And I'm not interested in destroying my body the way you describe. I'm happy at my current weight and size.

No need for crazy bodybuilding, just tone your body, overmusculation is a turn off for most women.

Well you can certainly stay at about your current weight and size for powerlifting, you'll just have to eat less, there's weight classes from like 110lbs to superheavy, which is like 275. So if you wanna stay your same size, just eat less.

I'm quite odd, bodybuilding couldn't motivate me at all, like I tried doing machines and curls and stuff and was just like "this is boring as sh**." Then I started doing squats for ice skating and I was like "man lifting up heavy stuff is fun." It's like a video game, you know? The muscles you gain are purely coincidental.

No dance classes, where do you live, like Saudi Arabia?

Bible belt. I mean there are dance classes, but they aren't like.. dance classes where guys go.

They are things like.. belly dancing and stuff.. which is a great place to meet lots of girls who will then automatically assume you are gay.

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22 Jun 2012, 5:38 pm

Some comparison of before vs after

BEFORE THE SHIRTLESS PIC (notice the huge date gaps), and most of them were e just "New Matches notifications"- even tho probably some of the old message notifications were lost in the spam folder i guess but this still reflects the gap rate:

[img][1200:700]http://i.imgur.com/pcO3E.png[/img]

JUST AFTER THE SHIRTLESS PIC (was post on May 29)

[img][1200:700]http://i.imgur.com/4Z0Pw.png[/img]

Good day, lads and gentlemen.

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22 Jun 2012, 5:41 pm

Balls to OKCupid.

Have a pint with me!

Sláinte!

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22 Jun 2012, 5:43 pm

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Balls to OKCupid.

Have a pint with me!

Sláinte!

Cheers!

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22 Jun 2012, 6:15 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Some comparison of before vs after

BEFORE THE SHIRTLESS PIC (notice the huge date gaps), and most of them were e just "New Matches notifications"- even tho probably some of the old message notifications were lost in the spam folder i guess but this still reflects the gap rate:

[img][1200:700]http://i.imgur.com/j5zab.png[/img]

JUST AFTER THE SHIRTLESS PIC (was post on May 29)

[img][1200:700]http://i.imgur.com/jYMQQ.png[/img]

Good day, lads and gentlemen.

Are you jacked up or something? Let's see the picture.

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23 Jun 2012, 6:43 am

^^ Lol not really, just toned.

It's unbelievable, no?

And what's the more unbelievable is this mass-change of heart.

Before:

-They barely replied
-They were more rude.
-They never apologized
-They got offended at the slightest sex joke or even just a flirt.
-They would feel offended if asked for an email or phone number

After:
- Now they almost always reply.
- Now they're all 10x nicer all the sudden! (same for Real-life )
- Now they apology for the slightest of things like being delayed to reply O_O (same for Real-life )
-Now they do sex jokes. (same for Real-life )
-Now they give me their phone numbers/ email/skype O_O (not exactly the same for Real-life but definitely better... )

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24 Jun 2012, 10:33 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

1- Work out just to be toned, no steroids, no other sh**, no over-musculation.
2- Post a shirtless pic of yourself, better in a beach setting if possible.
3- Turn the tables! keep messaging but this time get loads of replies, It's your turn now to be the okc chooser, not like the old days. Your replies rate would be increased like 3 or 4 times (let's suppose the basis is 1, not 0

), and you would even receive initial messages.

Important Note: Don't listen to the users here who tell you this is gonna attract only the 'shallow' type if girls, such idealist advice would get you nowhere - it's BS, I am telling you, you would receive more replies and even initial messages from many types of girls (from the nerdiest to the most extrovert types...) because, deep down, most humans are equally 'shallow' but some hide it better than others (or simply more self-conscious about their league and know what they can get and what they can't get).

Good hunting, males. It's time to roar.

Now excuse me....i have to delete some messages from my okc inbox because it's reaching its max.

Additional tips:

- On okc especially, don't waste time to message an offline girl, girls receive a lot of messages even while they are offline and your message would be lost among the bulk she received. Instead, message her while she's online because she's likely to see the "new message" pop-up notification, and if she likes your display pic (and here's why the pic is still the most important factor) then she would check it.
(I tried it with the same girls who didn't reply to a message I sent while they were offline, most of them have replied)

-Try local free dating sites (country, town...etc), they can very useful.

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24 Jun 2012, 10:06 pm

I had a sudden realization today.
There is something really appealing to me about this concept (not boo's insistence that it's fact based off of one persons experience without controlled variables but that's already been addressed)

It put's men on very equal footing with the expectations placed on women "just be pretty and nothing else matters, nothing else matters if you aren't pretty" ie. beauty covers up flaws, good traits don't cover up lack of beauty.
This is in opposition to the traditional (and I think flawed dynamic) that a man's personality counts where a woman's looks count. Now it may be a little objectifying, but at least it's objectifying all around. It's not my ideal but I can get behind that kind of egalitarianism.

I'm curious though. What does this method suggest for men who aren't abshot ready and don't have the ability/time to sculpt? Or does it rely on the idea that anyone can be fit with a reasonable amount of effort?

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24 Jun 2012, 10:16 pm

I was discussing this topic with my male friend the other day, and how I felt that it is a particular type of female that responds positively to a shirtless pic, so there must be a lot of that type of female around, due to Boo's success. He agreed somewhat, but also added that this type of person is the sort of person who would be active on an online dating site - they would be open to opportunities, they would take the initiative because they are not so fussy - they are looking for sex or something similar, nothing serious (most of the time). So it makes sense that using this tactic would mean you receive more messages. The females who aren't messaging are the ones who are there for something more serious so they are choosier, they are the ones who might prefer the man to make the first move, etc. etc. There might even be more of them, but you wouldn't know because they aren't making themselves known.

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25 Jun 2012, 12:37 am

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

Yes, I realized that too.

Looks is the most important factor in online dating regardless of the gender.

and the pic is the fastest thing to be instantly seen, when a woman receives like 30 messages a day, she would simply filter them as much as possible and check the most attractive ones.

For those who can't work out, well maybe they can just try to look better (better haircut etc).

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25 Jun 2012, 1:58 am

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WRONG.

I explained that before here because I knew some would assume that.

But it's plain wrong, I have been contacted by various and different types of women, half of them them are seeking long term relationships and aren't empty-headed.

In fact, the two hottest prospects are liberal feminists like you and Dogswh :lol:

....well not exactly but one is a geeky journalist who's only into monogamy, the other is .......well, an ultra-feminist who has no problem in FWBs and open relationships. They're far from shallow and empty headed.

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The females who aren't messaging are the ones who are there for something more serious so they are choosier, they are the ones who might prefer the man to make the first move, etc. etc. There might even be more of them, but you wouldn't know because they aren't making themselves known.

Yeah...riiight

If those are real then they weren't choosing me since 2009 so why I should choose them?

Please, take a look at the screenshots above.

WHERE were they those women? huh?

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