Question for you, and I'm dead serious about this and would like to hear your response:
If
you don't
have the decency to at least send the guys that contact you a "thank you but no thank you note," then why do you expect the same in return??
You have no qualms ignoring people you're disinterested in, but then seem shocked an appalled when you receive that kind of treatment from someone else. I don't think it was right of him to just ignore you, but I don't think it's right of you to ignore others either. Practice what you preach. Obliviousness to one's own hypocrisy is appalling.
By the way, his profile probably wasn't deleted, he just blocked you.
Reread through you own OP, I bolded the irony:
ShadesOfMe wrote:
... I usually don't respond to people. I'm more curious than anything. Anyway, This guy was actually in my area, and had Asperger's and was a 97% match with me! I was excited and explained that I was sorry my profile is empty (because I am shy) but I was excited he was on the spectrum because I am too.
No response. Day before yesterday I read more of his profile, found out his answers matched mine an insane amount. I recontacted him and said "let me try again." our match had gone up to 99% due to my answering questions, or him answering questions, or maybe even both. I even filled out a bit of my profile, explaining I have AS, because I thought maybe he was scared of the blank profile.
Today I log on. His profile has been deleted.
What did I do wrong?? Why couldn't he have had the decency to at least send me a "Thank you but no thank you." note?
Was it my fault?
She says she's too shy to message people back. She made a big step out of her comfort zone just to message this one guy.