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24 Jun 2012, 5:11 pm

Greetings WP'ers

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So I am finally in a relationship and things are getting serious. I may even lose my virginity by 26! Full Disclosure: I went from never having seen a woman naked to reaching third base with future promises of a home run, all within the last week. Either way I have a couple questions as to whats "normal". Ive never had these feelings before and they feel "weird"

Is it normal that I start missing her five minutes after she leaves for work?

Is it normal that I get teary eyed thinking about her?

Is it normal that I cant find the words to say and just start texting hearts and smileys?

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24 Jun 2012, 5:17 pm

thechadmaster wrote:

Is it normal that I start missing her five minutes after she leaves for work?

Is it normal that I get teary eyed thinking about her?

Is it normal that I cant find the words to say and just start texting hearts and smileys?

1. Yes

2. yes

3. yes!

Someone's in luuuuurve!

When I think super affectionate thoughts about my other half, it feels all physical pressurey and stuff. Do you ever get that with your lady?

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24 Jun 2012, 5:20 pm

MONKEY wrote:

thechadmaster wrote:

1. Yes

2. yes

3. yes!

Someone's in luuuuurve!

When I think super affectionate thoughts about my other half, it feels all physical pressurey and stuff. Do you ever get that with your lady?

YES, i can relate to the pressure. I dont know whether I want to cry laugh or cough up my heart. I get a tightness in my chest and a lump in my throat as i try to choke back the tears.

Im definitely in love... ive never felt this way before. my family always told me i would know love when i found it. If this isnt it i dont know what is. im also a true believer in love at first sight.

She is big on texting and so am i, thank God for unlimited texting plans...

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24 Jun 2012, 5:22 pm

That's probably why love songs bang on about hearts all the time, it must be the adrenaline rush that causes it. Or a rush of other hormones, love is definitely a physiological phenomenon which is really cool.

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24 Jun 2012, 5:31 pm

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I know I was made to be faithful anyway. I dont find myself attracted to the girl on tv with big "assets" anymore, even the ones I was attracted to two weeks ago. All I care about is spending time with my girlfriend. The rest of the world be damned, all I want is to cuddle and watch movies and kiss her until the day i die.

As the old song goes: "love is a many splendored thing"

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24 Jun 2012, 5:31 pm

Oh my god that is too cute!

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24 Jun 2012, 5:34 pm

thechadmaster wrote:

That's all normal and also cute.
It's so nice that you have the opportunity to experience physical intimacy with somebody you really like and care about.

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24 Jun 2012, 5:34 pm

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Oh my god that is too cute!

She understands me so well. Im afraid of being too clingy and pushing her away. She was afraid of doing that to me. Weve both been down a long road full of pain and rejection and torment. but as Rascal Flatts puts it "God bless the broken road that led me straight to you".

I so freaking love her its not funny! We both feel like weve known each other for 20 years instead of 2 weeks. We are already talking "five year plans" and such.

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24 Jun 2012, 6:04 pm

Yes, yes, yes.

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24 Jun 2012, 6:05 pm

Also, finally! A positive post! This is great.

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24 Jun 2012, 6:06 pm

Yes, yes, and yes Congrats!! !

Kinme wrote:

Also, finally! A positive post! This is great.

+ 1, if you'll excuse the pun

(Hey, it rhymes!)

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24 Jun 2012, 6:08 pm

AScomposer13413 wrote:

Yes, yes, and yes

Congrats!! !

Kinme wrote:

Also, finally! A positive post! This is great.

+ 1, if you'll excuse the pun

(Hey, it rhymes!)

Holy pickles! It does rhyme!

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24 Jun 2012, 10:01 pm

Congrats. How'd you manage to pull it off? Give the rest of us some advice.

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24 Jun 2012, 10:40 pm

pppf guys pity you! Pitiful, that pathetic! human being is just disgusting with they love,friendship. Do i have one or other? NO! do i need them after all theses nasty betrayals? HELL NO! Human is disgusting, a big disgrace at my eye. Love is equal to love an unworthy being know as humans. The day we will recognize me at my fair value, maybe i will change my idea

Thereupon i will hate human beings somewhere else

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25 Jun 2012, 2:19 pm

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WTF are you on about dude?

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25 Jun 2012, 2:26 pm

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MONKEY wrote:

Oh my god that is too cute!

Awww. Don't rush into anything too serious at this point though, people sometimes move too fast while on the honeymoon stage (or when the first surge of hormones rush though) so when they get to the second stage they realise how annoying the other person is! That's really the time when you figure how well matched you really are, rabbitears drives me round the bend but I love him regardless :wink:

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