I Know I've been posting quite a bit on the communication problems between my partner and I. Who has a lot of symptoms of AS its about a 50/50 chance. ( the cause for AS in his case he feels is up in the air, nature vs nurture. ) Thanks to the advice given here, we've talked and are on the way to making things better.
The other night we were on the phone for three and a half hours, ( We havent had a phone call last that long sense when we first started dating four years ago ) and each of us enjoyed the conversation.
Not saying its perfect. But I feel a little better about things with us.
Thank you all for the support and advice. 