I quit.

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f**k it. I don't want advice, I don't want sympathy, I don't want a bunch of people telling me that I'm the one to blame. that if I'd just change everything about myself that things would get better. I've heard it all before, and I'm not interested. I'm sick and tired of always being on the losing end.

I've had it with talking to women, I used to have respect for them, I was raised to respect them, I wanted to love them, I wanted to be loved by them. Now I just hate them. I'm tired of being treated like crap all the time. I'm tired of having women I know, or have recently met, lead me on with suggestive conversation.. I'm tired of having them use me for money... or emotional support.. to either cock block or make some other guy jealous.. I'm sick of the games.

Every time I lower my standards, every time I say, okay, I've now reached an age where I'm content with this.. I plead with the universe to be understanding just one time in my life. This one and I'll be happy.. if only this one will be different. She's never different. She's always the same. Exactly the same. If it's just because there is no "Spark" then f*****g tell me before I spend my limited resources on a goddamn date you f*****g c**t. Don't wait till two days later when you've found something better and then tell me. Don't say 'well, we can still be friends'.. we met on a goddamn internet dating site. "Well, I have no real feelings for you.. so have this consolation prize.. you can feel free to buy me stuff to make me feel better after I call you or text you whining about how hard my life is.. but don't ever expect to get in my pants, or then you're a creep". Gee, thanks. Now that we are "Just friends" is when you start sending me suggestive text messages or telling me you've just gotten out of the shower and are chatting to me naked. Anything you can do to keep my interest up and keep me from looking for something else.. anything to make sure I'm willing to keep spending money on you.

Adele had it all wrong, I don't wish you nothing but the best, I hope it bites you in the ass.

If you're a woman, I'm sorry, I didn't want to be this way, but the universe and my experiences in life have made me this way. All I wanted was evidence that you weren't all like this.. but every girl/woman I encounter seems to reinforce all my worst fears, and grievances with your sex.

Then make like a tree and gtfo. All of this is your problem for not wanting a solution

To be honest, I understand where rabbittss is coming from. There's no need to be so angry and frustrated with someone who is clearly angry and frustrated himself, and for a good reason - women not being interested means regular sex and reproduction, two amazingly-important parts of human life, are currently out of reach for him.

Maybe he'll be more successful now that he allegedly stopped caring. To get women you have to do things backwards at least to a point.

[quote] She's never different. She's always the same. Exactly the same.

Projection?

You know what, f**k you.

I'm also sick of the sanctimonious a**holes on this forum going out of their way to make my experience here as miserable as possible. So what if I don't take your so called "Advice" none of it's any good. you need to quit offering it. Find some solutions that work, and then offer them. If it's constantly more of the same.. keep it to yourself.

Considering the tone of your posts from the short time I've been around lately, I'd say you already gave up long, long ago.

The thing is, a lot of what these things you are saying are rabbitss are merely fictional. You have a lot of problems with women, but you will never be able to work on them if you don't actually interact with them as if they were another human being. I think you spend more time thinking about them than actually talking to them, and a lot of what you are saying about them or what they do / think are merely projections of your thoughts, not what is actually happening. I'm not saying you are delusional, only that you have dwelled on issues to the point your neurology of them has become distorted.

It's like me literally sitting in an office job I hate, thinking about it for hours a day. No one actually saying or doing anything to me, but me thinking they are doing all these things. It's simply not true, it's just my thoughts descenting into madness down to my own inhibition.

EDIT: I have the same opinion as Bluemax. The only reason you stay here, is to convert others to your way of thinking or find others like yourself to validate the existence of your views. It's rather sad.

rabbittss, there are great women out there. Stop looking for them and they will come to you. The second I hit rock bottom is the day I met my wonderful husband. Relax and pursue other interests for now.

[Logic comparison:] I'm going to move to France but I don't speak any French - they'd better all speak damned good English for me or I'm going to be mad as hell at all of them!


Expecting the world to change for yourself is selfish and delusional. It's up to us to learn to live with the "NaTives". And that goes for all of us.