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07 Jul 2012, 11:49 pm

So I lived in this coop and we were having a party and I was really really really drunk. This good looking blonde girl sat down next to me and started flirting with me. All of a sudden I started talking to her, started touching her, and doing naughty things. We'll she wanted to go back to my room but I wanted to go back to her room because my room was unorganized. You see, I just moved in and didn't finish packing. There were boxes everywhere. I'm very self-conscious and didn't want to be judged for having a unkept room. We'll we went up stairs and I think we were either at her door or my door (can't remember) and I chickened out. I went down stairs and ended up throwing up because I was really really drunk. As self-conscious virgin, I feel like this was very stupid of me. I was really drunk yet I was so panicky about my room. I rather not have sex than be embarrassed. That could have been the night. What do you guys think? Was I right or wrong? Should I have just banged her over the boxes?



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08 Jul 2012, 12:07 am

It would of been a worse mistake if you would of went in the room & then vomited on her.


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08 Jul 2012, 12:07 am

Should you have done that? yea sure. But i know the feeling of not wanting to let someone into your messy room especially if the reason is for sex



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08 Jul 2012, 12:16 am

nick007 wrote:
It would of been a worse mistake if you would of went in the room & then vomited on her.


I was thinking the same thing--it seems like you were just a bit too drunk. Really drunk isn't the best condition for losing one's virginity.



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08 Jul 2012, 1:05 am

bizboy1 wrote:
So I lived in this coop and we were having a party and I was really really really drunk. This good looking blonde girl sat down next to me and started flirting with me. All of a sudden I started talking to her, started touching her, and doing naughty things. We'll she wanted to go back to my room but I wanted to go back to her room because my room was unorganized. You see, I just moved in and didn't finish packing. There were boxes everywhere. I'm very self-conscious and didn't want to be judged for having a unkept room. We'll we went up stairs and I think we were either at her door or my door (can't remember) and I chickened out. I went down stairs and ended up throwing up because I was really really drunk. As self-conscious virgin, I feel like this was very stupid of me. I was really drunk yet I was so panicky about my room. I rather not have sex than be embarrassed. That could have been the night. What do you guys think? Was I right or wrong? Should I have just banged her over the boxes?


You actually made possibly one of the best choices of your life, and you did it while drunk. Congratulations. One of the worst things you can do when you're drunk is have sex with a girl you just met. What if you were too drunk to use contraception properly? What if she got pregnant or one of you got an STD? What if she had a boyfriend and was of such character that she and made up some horrible lie about you to attempt to absolve herself of responsibility?

Never have sex while intoxicated or with a girl who is intoxicated.



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08 Jul 2012, 1:15 am

Zinia wrote:
nick007 wrote:
It would of been a worse mistake if you would of went in the room & then vomited on her.


I was thinking the same thing--it seems like you were just a bit too drunk. Really drunk isn't the best condition for losing one's virginity.

I agree.



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08 Jul 2012, 1:17 am

It would have been worse if you had puked up all over her as that probably would have dented your reputation and made you the laughing stock at College.



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08 Jul 2012, 1:26 am

if you had have gone through with it, prolly would have been both of your worst mistakes. Drunk Sex, isnt good for one thing and usually in the morning all the why's and WTF's come out to why you had even considered it. I mean of course what looks hot to while drunk, may have been the most grotesk fould smelling beast on the planet (and i am not required to call it human either). =) just saying =)

So in all, you did the right thing =)



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08 Jul 2012, 1:52 am

Definitely not the worst mistake of your life, but going through with it might have been. It's not ever a good idea to make life decisions when your drunk and losing your virginity is a big one... Not to mention the possible STDs.



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08 Jul 2012, 1:57 am

Teredia wrote:
if you had have gone through with it, prolly would have been both of your worst mistakes. Drunk Sex, isnt good for one thing and usually in the morning all the why's and WTF's come out to why you had even considered it. I mean of course what looks hot to while drunk, may have been the most grotesk fould smelling beast on the planet (and i am not required to call it human either). =) just saying =)

So in all, you did the right thing =)


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08 Jul 2012, 2:17 am

You'll have more missed opportunities than that by the time you've finished your single years. We don't live in a Hollywood movie.

Just remember what it feels like. Regret over missed opportunities is several times more painful than trying and failing. When I think back on failed relationships I just shrug. When I think of opportunities I missed, that stings.



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08 Jul 2012, 2:25 am

Well, banging a girl is icky and gross anyway, so you did a good thing.



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08 Jul 2012, 2:29 am

Wolfheart wrote:
Teredia wrote:
if you had have gone through with it, prolly would have been both of your worst mistakes. Drunk Sex, isnt good for one thing and usually in the morning all the why's and WTF's come out to why you had even considered it. I mean of course what looks hot to while drunk, may have been the most grotesk fould smelling beast on the planet (and i am not required to call it human either). =) just saying =)

So in all, you did the right thing =)


Beer goggles :lol:

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EXACTLY!! !! !! !! !! !! !



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08 Jul 2012, 2:44 am

Teredia wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
Teredia wrote:
if you had have gone through with it, prolly would have been both of your worst mistakes. Drunk Sex, isnt good for one thing and usually in the morning all the why's and WTF's come out to why you had even considered it. I mean of course what looks hot to while drunk, may have been the most grotesk fould smelling beast on the planet (and i am not required to call it human either). =) just saying =)

So in all, you did the right thing =)


Beer goggles :lol:

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EXACTLY!! !! !! !! !! !! !


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08 Jul 2012, 4:17 am

nick007 wrote:
It would of been a worse mistake if you would of went in the room & then vomited on her.


haha!! I was thinking the exact same thing!



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08 Jul 2012, 4:23 am

Chronos wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
So I lived in this coop and we were having a party and I was really really really drunk. This good looking blonde girl sat down next to me and started flirting with me. All of a sudden I started talking to her, started touching her, and doing naughty things. We'll she wanted to go back to my room but I wanted to go back to her room because my room was unorganized. You see, I just moved in and didn't finish packing. There were boxes everywhere. I'm very self-conscious and didn't want to be judged for having a unkept room. We'll we went up stairs and I think we were either at her door or my door (can't remember) and I chickened out. I went down stairs and ended up throwing up because I was really really drunk. As self-conscious virgin, I feel like this was very stupid of me. I was really drunk yet I was so panicky about my room. I rather not have sex than be embarrassed. That could have been the night. What do you guys think? Was I right or wrong? Should I have just banged her over the boxes?


You actually made possibly one of the best choices of your life, and you did it while drunk. Congratulations. One of the worst things you can do when you're drunk is have sex with a girl you just met. What if you were too drunk to use contraception properly? What if she got pregnant or one of you got an STD? What if she had a boyfriend and was of such character that she and made up some horrible lie about you to attempt to absolve herself of responsibility?

Never have sex while intoxicated or with a girl who is intoxicated.


I agree with all of that plus you would not have really given your first time the meaning it should have with some random chick and drunk. Plus if you were that drunk you may have WANTED too but probably would not have been ABLE too. ;) You will find someone special to lose your virginity to and be sober! :)