Schoolgirl Love(Rant)

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There's a guy at school I really like. He's physically perfect in every way possible, except for how he dresses. It'd be very awkward to see a MallGoth Gamer Chick and a Steampunk holding hands and making out.

But that's not the point. I have the pleasure in being in an alternative classroom where the teachers know every student's business and personal matters. So all the staff members(not just teachers)want me to introduce myself to him. First of all, he has a girlfriend. Keep in mind that I am a highly envious person and if I was just his friend, I'd get very jealous and ask myself "Why me?". Second of all, no guys at school finds me physically attractive. Unless your some insertpolicticallycorrecttermforakidinspecialneedsthatarentworthmytimehere.

Hell, one time a teacher said "He seems to be very friendly so I don't know what her problem is with introducing herself" in front of another teacher. It really hurt my feelings.

FML

If he has a girlfriend and you are attracted to him it is maybe best to keep your distance. I think what you are doing is the morally correct thing. It really is not your teachers business how you choose to conduct your personal life.

For future reference (if he is ever single, or if a similar situation occurs with someone else), it really shouldn't matter if you wear different styles of clothing or like different music or whatever. If we only dated people just like us we'd severely limit the pool of available people. Most people change over time too, and that might include their clothes. It's what's under the clothes that really counts, I think

??? MallGoth Gamer Chick? Steampunk?

<--- REALLY getting old!! Waahhh!!

I hate it when people think that everyone who falls under the goth subculture would be just bff's or true soulmates if only they would be introduced. They probably saw something on Wikipedia that lumped all the goths together and now think they know all about goth from reading about it on the internet. They also most likely do not know that Voltaire is supposed to be taken tongue in cheek either. These people are my age, I apologize for that.

As for the fact that he's got a gf, I don't know what to tell you about that. At your age I had many a crush on many an unavailable guy or ones that wouldn't give me a second look. I'd try to be friends with him if I were you, since you are attracted to him. He probably won't always have that gf, and that will be your chance to swoop in and be a shoulder to cry on that turns into a love interest. Maybe.

An idea for you to start being friends with him is to talk with him about how the adults seem to think that you two are cut from the same cloth because of goth tendancies, and use that to mess with them. Tell thm you are going to get matching fangs except his will be made from polished brass and yours will be whatever Hot Topic has in stock. Possibly write one of those overly flowery and macbre poems about how you two were brought together and read it in private to the pushiest teacher. Tell the teacher it's a secret. Get him to help you think up more ideas to mess with the staff about that. (I am not making fun of you at all, I'm making fun of the fact that they probably think that's the extent of the interest)

You might also say to the next teacher who tries to fix you up with him "You know, my mom has a friend who wears Weejuns too! OMG let me introduce you! You have so much in common, obviously!" Use humor about it and maybe that can win him over.

Good luck!

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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So he's physically perfect, what about his personality? Have you even spoken to the guy?