My future so bleak

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I Cant believe this! After my several YouTube videos and Abc interview article about my life with aspergers and hearing loss. People and women still not change. It immediately getting worse. I still can't fit in this poor society. So many people have f*****g my life up situations. They reject me too much. I didn't do anything wrong.

Why people just refer to high social status? I don't have one and I'm trying to get social status but it.not working because people and women still reject me. I can't fit in this world.

I'm getting my uni degree at end of this year and going to US trip afterwards before my career job in Brisbane. I still so scared because o knew my life will be exactly a same as worse as possible there because people so hardly understand me while I try to tell them thr trurh of what is going on. Still didn't work.

Women hates me so much. they always reject me. I believe because of my poor social skills and low status. I Cant fix that because aspie is not curable.

Help me! f*****g hate this world. I get hurt way too much easily.

How do I put this.. if you are unattractive you are unattractive. You can't make people like you based on your weaknesses. They aren't obliged to like you no matter what you do. Find your strengths and work with those. If those don't work then they aren't your strengths.

Your strengths are whatever you are good at doing. Also, in reading your post, I got the impression that you come across to people as needy and desperate. This is a real turn off to other people, whether they are potential romantic interests, or you are just trying to be friends with them. You need to calm down--chill. Take time to find out who you are and to become at ease with yourself.

Also, status isn't the be all, end all of finding friends and romance. It is actually rather meaningless unless there is really any substance to back it up. The substance is more important than any perceived status it may provide. Celebrities and politicians have "status", but they rate zero with me unless they have done something worthwhile. Very few of them have ever done anything of any real worth. Simply being famous provides status, but has no true value. Sure some of them can act, but so what? Jimmy Stewart and a number of other old time actors served in WWII. Now that has value. All too many of today's celebrities are worthless phonies, and many of them are on drugs and booze, too. Look at all these jerks using their celeb status for the environment, by flying in their polluting personal jets to far off places to perform, so that other people will contribute to environmental causes, while they themselves contribute little or nothing beyond their performances.

Stop misdirecting your focus on status, and instead be the best YOU that you can be.

Lesson learned: no matter how many videos you make, you cannot change human nature.
Nor can you force people to like you.

Its probably a good idea not to breed. Its probable your kids would suffer the same as you.

This is unfair nature. In the past we would have been eaten by wolves, or unable to feed or fend for ourselves...

If you want some beaver find a nice sympathetic hooker. If you want a GF find someone as disordered.

There is someone for everyone, but when your disabled, finding them becomes very hard. Even for an autistic superstar

To be honest, some people won't really have an understanding of what AS is and even if they do, they will misjudge it for something that will portray you in a negative light. Having a sense of entitlement because you have taken a step towards finding acceptance towards yourself isn't going to help, acceptance is a personal thing. You are only going to set yourself for disappointment if you put expectations on the world, the world isn't fair and neither are people.

How do you think a girlfriend would make your life better? Honest question here.

You guys find my youtube videos useful? The videos I made will tell you what my situation is. Please consider them

Even if they have an understanding of AS, that doesn't mean they have to like you. All the tolerance and understanding in the world can't make love happen. The minute we begin to try to apply the ADA to relationships, it's a scary day. I already hear people get called "racist" for saying they don't find a particular race attractive.

That said, in America there are tons of white trash hicks who get married, inner city welfare mooches who get married, being low social status doesn't mean your dead.

Also, think of the flip side. Think of people like Prince William. Every woman who was ever interested in him, he's got to figure out does she love me for me, or does she love that if she marries me, she will become a noble woman and even "queen regent" one day.

Life hurts, life is a b***h. Sometimes you can dodge, sometimes you have to brace for impact.

How profound is your hearing loss? Have you tried dating in the deaf community?

I am profound hearing impaired in both ears. I wear hearing aids, so that mean I still can hear. However not always good at hearing because the speech of the words can be confusing. I use sign language as one of main communication, but recently in my life especially at uni I have no one else to sign with so I just speak english as second language.

There isn't deaf dating website for Australia. There hardly any deaf or hearing impaired women around my age. Look at our country, embarrassingly at 23million compared to US at 330million.....