Oh, ok, because in our group, we are about autism self advocacy and we need to stay focused.
I don't know how old you are, I am almost 48, so I will share some wisdom on "hooking up": always be honest up front, no matter what. Be direct and be yourself. Females between 19-28 "hook-up", at and after 30, we want to be courted and dated. The best way to create a connection is through sincere shared interests and Friendship is the best way.
Never, ever do something that you don't want to but might just because She wants you to; be yourself and don't be afraid to be confident. If you focus on "hooking up" as the last thing, the relationship you want will happen. Opposites attract because we are always searching for ourselves in others so what we lack is Attractive.
We are "chemically" drawn to each other though this is only the physical level which has nothing to do with the emotional, intellectual or spiritual level, thought it is very strong, so Look Wisely
Good Good luck.
AutiDiva
NYC
Just to clarify, when I say "hook up" I don't mean have sex, I just mean have a connection of some sort.