Does this woman like me or is she just playing with me?

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I met this woman from Hong Kong (I'm in China doing an IT job now). I was sitting in a café on my laptop and she started looking at me and smiling, then struck up a conversation with me. We get to know each other a little and she offers to go out to dinner sometime. She gives me her number and email and pays for my lunch. A few days later, I call her and we go out to dinner with her. I got lost while looking for the restaurant. My phone was out of power, we couldn't call each other. When I got to the restaurant, she told me how worried she was about me. Then we eat and talk more. She ends up showing me a huge photo gallery, including many childhood photos of her in her cell phone. She mentioned during dinner that she wanted to meet up at the restaurant for dinner with her bf, but he was busy (she showed no photos of him by they way). That was the only sentence she said using that word and then the subject was changed. She paid for the dinner as well and was interested in hanging out again. When we walked back to the hostel we were staying at, I put my arm around her and she didn't seem to mind. Here is the strange thing. I called her a few days later and now she completely ignores me calls and emails? What the hell happened? Keep in mind she was a rich lady from Hong Kong. She might have been just playing mind games with me. That whole "I know I'm hot and you know it too, but you will never have me because I have a bf bs". Any thoughts on this?

By the way, she was extremely beautiful. I thought she was a model.

Since I have been in a quite similar situation recently, my personal feeling is that she is either trying to make you jealous in order to keep you attached and make a move, or she is just trying to make her bf jealous and told you that he existed so you knew that nothing was going to happen, or she is indeed interested in having sex with you but wanted you to know that this was it and that you should not get any hopes up that her intentions were beyond that (in other words: a relationship). I would stay clear of her, but I am not recommending it to you... like I said, it is how I would act if I were in your place.

Well she seemed genuine in at least liking me a little. I know the money she used for my meals meant nothing to her since she is rich. Maybe she was on some sort of ego trip. She was only staying in Beijing for a month, so maybe she just wanted a boy toy? I don't talk to her anymore and I'm with a French woman now anyway.

I don't think ANYONE will ever know if she was just playing or not... she might not even know herself!

Try not to let it bug you too much...