there's no way to find a girlfreind in this town...

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I've said it before, I'll say it again, there's just no way to find a girlfriend in Sunbury, all the girls my age are either total jerks, or they've been taken, or both. usually both... plus, to make matters worse there's no where to look around here! ya know what? I hate liveing in Sunbury! almsot everyone in this town is a total jerk! and even my so called freinds, won't help me find a girlfreind, it got me really depressed listening to him talk on the phone to his girlfriend... the fact is I need someone to love, but I'll never find anyone. and it's killing me... most of my issues come from not having a girlfriend, which basicly means if I had a girlfriend, I'd have alot less issues. and let's not forget how I try so much to be a good guy. in all honesty I think this world as it out to cuase tons of pain to good people. I swear I need to find that speical someone before I get too old, or I will just have no choice but to tick off all my enemy's till we all kill each other, and belive me, I have alot of enemys. mainly becuase I would always fight back when someone bullyied or abuse me. but hey, thats the only way to stop them. anyway, I guess the thing is... Sunbury sucks!

Try the area I live in. Everyone's with their cousins. :/

Yeah, it sucks. It seems the only way I'll have any luck with women is if I move to Europe, which just ain't happening for numerous reasons.

Or Canada or Japan.^^

Sometimes I forget the geographical plights.

Come to London. No shortage of women here

Well I try to hang around younger girls. Not that it helps much though, But they're the only choice i've got, no one else my age would date me, but I have a 10% chance with them, and then no chance. Just keep it a secret or be prepared to be callled names from the many people who don't approve.

Sunbury? What state and county? Just trying to figure out the real numbers, if the population is low enough you may have a legitimate complaint.

Another aspie is the likely path of least resistance, but you need at least several hundred girls to get to odds up for a chance encounter. There is nothing wrong with neuro typical's, its just that many may reject you because you are different , not to mention you both have very different ways of understanding and communicating. The only way to make progress is by real experience with real NT women. But if you cant get that experience it becomes a cache 22 and you wind up getting nowhere.

I dont know how old you are. If your up for adventure you can look up Daves ESL.
You can teach English in some foreign country. If your young you could do this for a couple years, I personally think you will not regret.
Someplace like China, its been 5 years since I was there, I was in the south, at that time, believe me, you would have zero problems finding too many girlfriends. You will get a real crash coarse in NT girl behavior. There are a lot of other great places you can go too.

What really bugs me is some aspie guys on here and a few I know in person complain endlessly about there difficulties yet will do nothing to attempt to improve themselves. They are to afraid to take any chance at anything, its really maddening.

I got an awesome solution to the problem. Become goal oriented and figure out what you want to do with yourself. Forget about the women problem and find happiness within yourself.

Bests advice I heard all day.

Well, I dont think he ever said how old he was, so Im not sure if that would be as good an idea for him as it is for me. Assuming he is an adult, then forget I said anything.