Any1 ever dated a girl who was physically stronger than you?

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How was it?

Most of my girlfriends have been much stronger than me. In same ssex relationships it might be different but it was never something I thought about much. I'm rather weak though.

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I don't doubt that there are probably a lot of people who are stronger than me regardless of gender. I'm working on building muscle and losing weight, but I'd rather not be one of those big fugly creatures you see in those ridiculous bowflex or shakeweight or whatever other commercials. I don't think I'd mind dating a girl physically stronger than me, as that might make for more fun in the bedroom. But to answer your question, I don't think I have. At least so far as I know, none of my few girlfriends were stronger than me.

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I got a celebrity crush on her.

I haven't met anyone weaker than me lol except my 90 pound cousin, but she is tiny....I am sooo weak that I'm ashamed...I can only raise 5 pounds at gym mostly. But I wouldn't like to be stronger than a guy either.

Yeah it was fun, the feeling of helplessness when she tried various wrestling grabs and throws on me. That feeling of helplessness was spectacular.

It all changed when she started hormone therapy. She became much more weak and frail, but was still stronger than me in pretty much every way.

The girl I was dating until recently (we've gone back to being friends but it's possible for us to try again in the future, maybe) is not only physically stronger than I am, but also quite skilled in H2H combat. It's kind of an environmental influence thing, her strength comes from growing up working on a farm in Wyoming and her martial arts skill comes from when she had to constantly defend herself while attending an alternative school in the ghetto (or as close to the ghetto as any area in Wyoming can get).

If anything, I admire her, because she's also very strong and independent personality wise. She's kind of a role model for me, whenever I feel like the world is out to get me I'll think of her and be inspired to improve myself. Its funny because she doesn't really see what it is about herself that I consider "role model" material, but she's modest in that respect.

She's taught me a few specific points on the body to utilize when fighting so as to incapacitate an attacker. I find it impressive that she knows all this from personal experience and has never formally trained in the martial arts, because she could definitely excel at it with her current skill.

And if anything, it makes her a bit more comfortable around me knowing that if I ever tried to force myself on her (which is unthinkable, I'd sooner put a gun to my own head and pull the trigger), she could fold me five ways and then pummel my compacted body so hard into the ground that the resulting impact crater would be deep enough to be my grave.

Such a lovely girl...

I am currently dating a girl that is physically stronger than me. It's funny because I am more than a foot taller than she is (5'1 vs 6'2), and I am not the thin, bony built type of guy, but to be fair, she loves to work out, visits a gym frequently (focuses on strenght exercises) and often beats guys in armwrestling, while I've always focused more on improving my mental faculties, rather than physical ones.

We once discussed this issue; she closed the discussion stating that it feels nice not to be only my girlfriend, but also my bodyguard