thewhitrbbit wrote:
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Or just for plain sex.
How exactly is that using you?
Using you means they are getting something from you and your getting nothing in return.
If they made you think they were emotionally invested and really cared about you, finding out you were just a lorified wank toy would probably be upsetting, especially if you aren't into casual sex
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I think everyone has probably felt used at somepoint, it's just part of life and learning about other people.
I also think a lot of young people don't know how to be in a healthy relationship, don't know how to reciprocate and so inadverdently hurt each others feelings.
One of the girls I dated who was really sweet and certainly didn't mean to do harm, was still a little clueless about a lot of things and so she welcomed the kind of leery sraight male attention a lesbian couple in public tends to draw, which was really hurtful to me and she had a hard time understanding why it bothered me so we broke up. But she's since wised up and she and her current girlfrind are great pals to have.
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